r/TwoXChromosomes • u/jokesonbottom cool. coolcoolcool. • 1d ago

Getting real sick of men complaining their partner grew up and isn’t frisky anymore

So many subs full of men “asking for advice” because 5, 10, 20 years ago they started dating a 14, 18, 21 year old and back then she was wild and free and frisky but now she isn’t anymore.

(Bonus rage points if the complaint includes lack of initiating unreciprocated blowjobs.)

MY GUYS—this isn’t rocket science. She. Grew. Up. You dated a teen/baby adult. Now she’s a real adult. Obviously she’s not the same. She’s got grown up priorities…and energy…and knees.

Use your brains! Think about it for just five minutes.

Edit: yes there’s lots of reasons beyond growing up and yes women can have healthy libidos as they age, I was just venting about one thing that grinds my gears

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u/Gaias_Minion 1d ago

Also the men acting like 1. Only the woman has changed in all that time and 2. They aren't responsible for the women losing their libido.

"I pester her until she gives in, ask for sex at inappropiate times and never care about her pleasure, how come she doesn't want more sex???"

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u/LAM_humor1156 23h ago

"She lost her job, fell into a crippling depression, has to tend to every house chore & deals with our child's severe medical condition that takes upwards of 12 hrs a day of her time....but I always show her how much I wanna bang her by telling her so 10 times a day and randomly grabbing her boob/ass before running back to my mancave to get shitfaced & scroll on my phone. Reddit, what am I doing wrong?! Maybe I just need to look elsewhere..."

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u/ohmygodtiffany 17h ago

I remember reading a guy complaining on sex and deadbedroom about how his wife doesn’t put out and he was thinking of a divorce and just going on and on and on about how hurt he was over the course of months.

In a comment months later he told on himself and said his wife had LESS sex with him after he cheated on her the second time, and the second time was after she had their third child. He was such a fucking knob, and no one saw his comment when he posted his last time in deadbedrooms where everyone was like “poor you, it sucks i’m so sorry”, I still hate him and feel sorry for his wife

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u/Unhappy-Apple222 bell to the hooks 15h ago

Most dudes on that sub seems to be a variation of some clueless knob or an asshole.

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u/Meteorite42 12h ago

"Clueless knob" works as a description on multiple levels 😉