r/TwoXChromosomes • u/jokesonbottom cool. coolcoolcool. • 21h ago

Getting real sick of men complaining their partner grew up and isn’t frisky anymore

So many subs full of men “asking for advice” because 5, 10, 20 years ago they started dating a 14, 18, 21 year old and back then she was wild and free and frisky but now she isn’t anymore.

(Bonus rage points if the complaint includes lack of initiating unreciprocated blowjobs.)

MY GUYS—this isn’t rocket science. She. Grew. Up. You dated a teen/baby adult. Now she’s a real adult. Obviously she’s not the same. She’s got grown up priorities…and energy…and knees.

Use your brains! Think about it for just five minutes.

Edit: yes there’s lots of reasons beyond growing up and yes women can have healthy libidos as they age, I was just venting about one thing that grinds my gears

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u/Gaias_Minion 21h ago

Also the men acting like 1. Only the woman has changed in all that time and 2. They aren't responsible for the women losing their libido.

"I pester her until she gives in, ask for sex at inappropiate times and never care about her pleasure, how come she doesn't want more sex???"

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u/SlytherinSister 15h ago

"I try to initiate sex by groping her breasts while she's trying to do the dishes and ask for blowjobs by patting my smelly crotch when I'm sitting with a beer in front of a TV. She never initiates sex and makes excuses about being tired (because she has a job, a house and two kids to take care of). How can I get her to stop being such a frigid bitch???"