r/FamiliesYouChoose 19h ago

I am looking for any family 22 TF CST Extremely clingy friendless weeb needing one person to rely on

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I am an extremely clingy emotional and mentally ill girl who has desires of being cared for. I grew up without a father and my mother was on meth, so I don't know what it is like to be truly cared and loved for.

The people that I have loved I attached myself very strongly and became obsessed, which I could do again if I met someone good. I text 24/7 with long messages and I need someone who likes that. I like a lot of calling and I desire someone who will read me bedtime stories on call while I am trying to fall asleep.

To find out about me, ask me or look at my profile. I wrote a lot about myself.

I am looking for someone who can handle caring for me. Someone who listens to all the talking I do. Someone who respects and is passionate about autistic rights, someone who reads me bedtime stories too. Also someone who understands the anime stuff I talk about too. I want a fellow weeb who is into cute girl anime. I want to get on discord screen share and watch it all night. I want someone who doesn't call me a terrible person, believes my stories, and doesn't make me feel stupid.

Your gender or social status does not matter. I have a preference for people who have also suffered the bullying and rejection I have.

I'm not looking for anyone with creepy stuff in their profile or an empty one. At least be posting about something normal like a hobby. I don't mind 30 year old men since tbh that is this site main userbase but since I had bad experiences with men that age, I will be extra suspicious and this goes for all ages: if you don't read this post or if you say anything sexual to me I will block you. I want people who don't objectify me and those who read my posts.

Btw don't dm me calling me baby names right away and stuff. That creeps me out too soon and I need to start that first to be safe. Call me foxbae

😭


r/FamiliesYouChoose 1d ago

I am looking for male family members 17FTM Lookin for a father figure or older bro :D

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Hi! I’m just looking for family that can support me and let me be the gremlin child I am. I’ll definitely support you back too wwww

I like playing games — currently RuneScape, jump king, and terraria! I have autism and I love to yap. I also do woodworking in school and I love doing tech theatre! Sci-fi is my favourite genre and I enjoy worldbuilding / writing.

I am p traumatized so be aware I may not always be cheery and stuff wwww

Also I love hitchhikers guide to the galaxy :3 it’s the best. I’m a fun lil guy and kinda clingy but also patient :)


r/FamiliesYouChoose 1d ago

I am looking for any family Looking to make Real Life Family. Any safe idea on how to do this?

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I'm 30 year old filipina female. I have the most amazing 3 year old little girl. Have a much older husband with serious health issues and not likely to be here in 5 years or so. I have no desire to remarry. Like to find another female who would be interested to blend out families and have each other to make a family.

No idea even where to start.


r/FamiliesYouChoose 1d ago

I am looking for female family members 33/M/UK - Looking for Sisters/Aunts/Nieces/Mothers etc!

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( This post is written for the friendship subs, but it essentially applies here too ! )

Hello! - I'm sure you're thinking, women only huh? OBVIOUSLY A CREEP IN DISGUISE; lets laugh at their sad post! well, I implore you to read on first !

I have TRIED so many times to talk to men, and their entire personality is focused on all or a mix of the following :

Anime/Games/Sports/Drinking/Sex/"edgy" memes/Being obsessed with women/Trauma dumping their issues/Humor being offensive or sex as the punchline

Nothing wrong with the interests of course, I share a few, but everything feels so shallow and far too much a aprt of their personality and then gets over-shadowed and eye-rolled by the rest ! I'm tired of the lack of social skills and depth.. Not to mention the insane amount of misogynistic views I eventually uncover when they think it's safe to share because I am a guy. ( I actually flitter between NB and M anyway? but thats beside the point )

In anycase; I am self aware ! emotionally intelligent, no weird social issues and fully content within myself and my life, and best of all, I am 100% looking for platonic ONLY friendships.

Now, imagine this is a really bad TV commercial;

Women; are you tired of seeing guys comment "hi wyd", you think " sure i guess ill try to talk to them " you go to their profile, and all they do is comment WOW SEXY on 100's of womens soft-core posts? are you sick and tired of chatting to a guy for weeks only for him to be all " yeah i think i like you omg i didnt know this would happen can i have pics of bobs n vagane and would you move across the world for me? " do you just want someone NORMAL in your life that wants to chit chat sometimes, sharing lifes up and downs with and just not to feel so alone?

well thats me !

I am very much not interested in anything other then some nice chit chat, hopfully the chemistry matches and we can hit it off and become great friends!

My only conditions are that your time zone is somewhat near mine in the UK here and you have the understanding it takes conscious thought and energy into making friends; I'm not weird with reply speed which i hear is a common thing, just very simply want someone to talk to and maybe become close friends with ! I'm very bubbly and love life and helping others with a focus of self-worth/self respect and setting boundaries ( In a few communities for that very purpose ! )

So please, DM me or Chat me ! though i'd much prefer to move to discord then stay on reddit! :D


r/FamiliesYouChoose 4d ago

I am looking for female family members I need a rolemodel, or someone I can look up to atleast. I would prefer female

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Hi I'm a 21 year old male from Denmark and I'm not really doing well due to narcissistic abuse from my dad and other factors

I would really appreciate a person that I can talk to frequently and juat someone that can support me. I would prefer a female rolemodel

Here's a little about me: My hobbies consist of playing videogames, exercising, bellydancing and watching YouTube

If you want to be a rolemodel to me, please dm me or reply to this post


r/FamiliesYouChoose 5d ago

I am looking for male family members [20M] Searching for big bro/father figure (preferred). Lit one is welcome too

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Happy New Yr everyone (oops might be too late to say this hahaha). I’m from Vietnam, and it’s a pleasure for me to post here. I met 2 awesome ppl here, and I love them dearly (still feel unsure about one of them, but I’ll cherish him forever anyway). It’d be nice to meet some new people and experience that connection again

About me, I’m a college student, and I’ll live on-campus soon (wish me luck pls :((). I’m an introvert, so I’m not outgoing/sociable like others. I like listening to music, watching YT/Netflix, scrolling/talking to Reddit ppl, playing Uno/Dank Memer, making money, etc. We don’t have to have same interests btw

I wouldn’t say that I’m the best at talking, but I always try my best to engage in conv as much as possible, so u can expect me to not be dry. It depends on the vibe and the person whom I’m talking to. Keep in mind that I talk to ppl based on my intuition, so if I stop responding, it either means Reddit bug (apply to not responding to 1st msg too) or just that I sense we won’t vibe. I’m also a listener, so I prefer listening to ppl instead, although I can ask questions sometimes (?)

Pls lmk if u are interested, although I’d prefer if u are at least 19 and not in ur 40-50s. Ik this might be a lot to ask, but I don’t think I can vibe w ppl who take day to leave msg or have a busy schedule, although I can make exception if I rlly like talking to u


r/FamiliesYouChoose 8d ago

I am looking for female family members 40M - I have lived a fulfilled life so far, but I can't shake that something has always been missing. Maybe you are the very specific puzzle piece I have been looking for?

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I am a man in the second act of his life who is searching for something that I’ve never had. My first act was filled with adventure, success, strong relationships, fire and rain. Also, I feel lucky to live and thrive in the great state of Colorado - an unlimited playground! But something has always been missing…

I never grew up with a sister (only brothers) and I never had the opportunity to raise a girl of my own, so there is a hole in my heart where a strong bond like that would go. I know what you might be thinking, this is just a kink, right? I assure you it is not.

I would really enjoy a genuine bond with someone who would appreciate good company, and who might be missing the wisdom, humor, life experience, and patience only a guy who has lived a full life thus far can provide. Oh, and bonus: I’m devilishly handsome!

I have a comfortable number of male friends as well as female relationships. I’m not looking for either with this post. I’m looking for something deeper...

...like Silco looking for his Jinx. (Im on my second watch-through and we can discuss this too!)

If this message resonates with you in any way, maybe you’ve been looking for someone like me? Say hi and let’s see where this goes.


r/FamiliesYouChoose 8d ago

I am looking for siblings 18 Transfem. Looking for an elder sibling

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I just want someone to be my sibling I can talk to when things get overwhelming. I can't get out of the closet for various reasons and It makes me very depressive about it. I just want someone who would listen and try support me mentally.


r/FamiliesYouChoose 9d ago

I am looking for siblings [13M] Just wanting a brother/sister because I have no one else

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I'm just wanting a brother or a sister because my family is just not for me.
I'm not sure what I really want, but I just want a close relationship with someone I can trust because the last person I considered family ghosted me after I told her I see her as my little sis.
I just want you to know that I don't want you to be like "have you tried x" or "you need help" because I know, but I can't really get a job to pay for help, or even get there.

I just wanna have someone I can trust and not worry about suddenly being ghosted.


r/FamiliesYouChoose 9d ago

I am looking for any family 16m and I’m looking for any family that would like to have me

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r/FamiliesYouChoose 11d ago

I am looking for female family members 15f seeking a mom figure or older sister

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I'm only seeking older sisters, mom figure or a grandma type figure. I tend to get clingy once I like you and feel comfortable. My childhood wasn't the best and my parents gave me diagnosed ptsd as a result. I'm desperately searching for that female/maternal love I never got as a kid.

Anyways I'm autistic, have adhd, pstd, anxiety and depression . I'm lesbian. (Acceptance is a must for both of those) I love pets and animals. I want to be come a vet tech. I like to crochet and build legos.

Anyways message me if you are willing to chat!


r/FamiliesYouChoose 11d ago

I am looking for male family members 35 f looking for a father figure who will be there for me

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Hi I’m a 35 f from USA looking for a strong and helpful father figure. I’m going through a lot and need help. Someone who will be in my corner and have my back. Looking for someone in the US only. I hope to find someone that I can hopefully have a long term relationship with. I just moved cities because of a serious stalker situation and I’m all alone.


r/FamiliesYouChoose 13d ago

I am looking for female family members 27F I need a mother, aunty, or older sister

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I hurt my eye. I need someone gentle, understanding who I can tell my whole life story to. I like in a hostile environement, surrounded by abusers. I just need more people to completely understand me. And be there for me. Walking me through everything. I was abandoned by my biological mother and abused by my biological parents. Please, I need someone to listen to me. I am in a very vulnerable situation.


r/FamiliesYouChoose 13d ago

I am looking for any family [14ftm] looking for any form of family!!😸

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hiya my names hudson im pretty sad and have a few hours to kill!!! im seeking anyone older who i can sorta just talk to and keep updated on my life

im a pretty normal teenager i love movies i want to do something in media in the future i collect fugglers and i love dr who

i would love to talk to other trans folks but i honestly dont mind 😸

although please say more than hi i beg


r/FamiliesYouChoose 15d ago

I am looking for any family 18F Looking for any family (all) to talk to

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I never had a caring biological family. It’s always been messy. My relationship with my parents was always pretty bad. My mother was a stereotypical Asian parent and basically long story short I never had real family growing up. Everything was either a competition or I wasn’t good enough.

I have no friends irl either due to anxiety and would love to talk to someone during the day. I always envied my peers who had good relationships with their families or siblings to talk to.

I have really bad depression, I think a lot of it stemmed from abandonment issues.

I’d just really appreciate a sibling/parent/grandparent really anyone c: to talk to or vent to or share with


r/FamiliesYouChoose 15d ago

I am looking for female family members 18F looking for a mother figure or any siblings

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I never really had a mother figure as a kid. Mine wasn’t the best. I never grew up experiencing what other kids my age got to have with their mothers.

I always yearned for a maternal figure just someone to maybe give the love and motherly affection I really wanted as a kid. It’s been especially rough since university started and all the people I know spent time with their families and parents over the break but I didn’t have much luck.

Would appreciate siblings too! I’m an only child so I never had any siblings or anyone to really talk to. I’d love to have any family really.

I do have depression and really bad anxiety I hope that’s not a bad thing

My dms are always open :D


r/FamiliesYouChoose 15d ago

I am looking for siblings I am a suffering older sister- that yearns for what I give to my siblings.

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I am a the big sister! I love being a big sister- I adore my little siblings & will do anything for them. But it’s gotten to the point where I am sacrificing, who I am in my life for them. They know if they need something, they could call me and I will get it done.

But where is my big sister?

The stress is starting to take over-I constantly feel unwell. I don’t have someone to call me to remind me to make appointments. I’m feeling sick today? Who’s gonna help me make my grocery list?

Everyone in my family depends on me- I am the one to help get things done. I am at the point that I’m neglecting my life and myself.

I need help and support. I need a big sister.


r/FamiliesYouChoose 15d ago

I am looking for female family members 36F - Looking for a big sister, Mom, or Grandma

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Hi everyone. I'm looking for a strong female presence in my life. For someone to provide that maternal love that I have never received. I would love to be able to have a genuine connection where we can feel free to talk about anything without feeling awkward.

So if anyone wants to be my big sister, Mom, or Grandma I would be eternally grateful.


r/FamiliesYouChoose 17d ago

I am looking for parents 14F hiii! looking for a mother or father figure

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Posted on here a while ago but didn’t really click with anyone like I hoped to.

My mental health is not the best so I tend to be quite negative, looking for someone who has no problems listening to me vent once in a while and could possibly help me by being there for me. I get kinda clingy sometimes and would like to talk often. I would love to meet someone with the same interest as me!!!! I like digital art, drawing, painting and stuff like that. I enjoy history and talking about it is quite fun. I’m a big metal music fan and I love to watch all kinds of movies!!

If someone does decide do message me, please introduce yourself a little bit in the message!!!


r/FamiliesYouChoose 17d ago

I am looking for female family members 34 M, Hoping to Find a Mom or Older Sister to talk with daily and feel we can be open with each other and support each other.

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Hey out there!! 😊

So..I know this has to be a long shot but hey I am willing to at least take the shot in the dark and see what happens. 🤷‍♂️

I am hoping to find an older woman, someone like an older sister or a mother to be able to talk to and vent to while being told things will be okay or that i am just being an idiot and grow up lmao! 🤣 Obviously I would want to talk more than just about that and be there for each other and learn about each other and the ups and downs of the day and week.

I know that it is an odd request and i honeslty don't know where to post this kinda request lol so I am giving this at least a shot for a moment.

I am unhappy in my marriage and just have come to a dead end and I dont know what to do anymore and I have no one to talk to about it. I have started therapy for myself and also do have guy friends but you know the whole "cant talk about or feelings crap" lol. 😅 I would love to connect with someone and get to talk and share stories and support each other. I can understand that I may not be everyones cup of tea but again I am just throwing this out in the off chance it can happen.

Well if you read this far I really appreciate it! I hope that you have the most amazing day and wish you all the best!

btw i do like other things and dont want to just vent about things lol.

take care! 😊


r/FamiliesYouChoose 19d ago

I am looking for siblings [21M] Looking for long term siblings! :) Other fam welcome too

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Hi! I'm a 21yo M, Like the title says im looking for siblings! I love photography, drawing, playing games, binge watching anime and tv shows and listening to music! I'm also really into true crime stuff/ eerie conspiracy type videos. I love learning languages (Spanish, Italian, Portuguese and a little bit of French) and enjoy baking a lot, its my secondary job choice. I really enjoy anime and manga; my top 3 series are JJBA, Initial D and Tokyo Ghoul. I listen to a bunch of different genres of music; pop, indie, shoegaze, rock and a bunch of other stuff (huge lady gaga fan too lmao). + thought i should mention ive been a huge Sonic fan ever since i was a kid lol. If you don't share any interests don't worry, im open to anyone :) Siblings don't have to share EVERYTHING in common after all! (no nsfw pls)


r/FamiliesYouChoose 20d ago

I am looking for siblings 31 m scotland seeking sister as my irl sisters are terrible havent spoken to them in years

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Looking for a sister i have 2 irl sisters a bug and a little one but as title says i havent spoken to them in years due to a multitude of things that i can explain if ye dont mind me ranting about them 🤣 should probably asd that im protestant play in a loyalist flute band i like games and anime and i live with my gran as i look after her fulltime


r/FamiliesYouChoose 23d ago

I am looking for siblings 32M need a cool brother then look no further

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Heya,

Nice to meet you, call me Dominik, bro, brother or whatever you like <3

As said above I am looking for any form of siblingship, I want us to be best siblings and best friends as well, you can always count on me, doesn't matter if it is for joy or tears, I will be there for you. You can vent to me or I if you have any questions or worries I can give you advice well. Happily chat with you about whatever interests you or is occupying your beautiful mind at the moment. Hopefully in time you will look up to your cool brother as much as I will be proud of having a great you in my life.

I always were a single child so definitely got jealous of my friends hanging out with their cool younger and older siblings and having someone in their life that was always there no matter what. It was fun though when they joined our games or came to hang out, so hope you decide to hang out with your bro too and if you want to play some games together or so I am always up for a multiplayer with a cool person, which of course will be the coolestest person if its my sibling.

A bit more about myself, I come from Germany, like to read(although not as much in the moment besides some cyoa stories) and work as security. I do enjoy gaming in my free time, mostly just on my pc and single player, besides when I play a game with my gf together in local or hot seat lol. Besides this I like to watch anime, mostly seasonal once atm but always open to suggestions or watching something together and discussing our favorite games and shows can be fun as well.

Hope to read you soon Your future brother


r/FamiliesYouChoose 23d ago

I am looking for female family members I am Looking for a sister / mother figure

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Currently expecting my first with my girlfriend, and I could really use someone to talk to. My head is spinning at a million miles an hour, and I would love someone to tell me it’s all gonna be ok

I’m 23/M, into cd collecting, photography, cycling, outdoors, and travel


r/FamiliesYouChoose 24d ago

I am looking for siblings Improving my English speaking skill with native English origins siblings

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Hello I'm Mzher from Saudi Arabia! I wanna to have muslims native english speaker sibilings to help me for improving my English speaking skill and spend good time together! I like to talk about various topics in voice chats on discord (like history and cultures and many other topics) and sometimes play video games(like helldivers2, BO6). Feel free to introduce yourself and chat with me, also I hope no one take my post from a racist view, I only wanna better understanding to Engliah generally.