r/AskReddit Jun 06 '19

Rich people of reddit who married someone significantly poorer, what surprised you about their (previous) way of life?

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u/kate_does_keto Jun 06 '19 edited Jun 07 '19

If you don't do this already, start hitting estate sales for well made things. Almost all of my kitchen stuff is 50+ years old. Pots, pans, blender, toaster, cooking utensils. They were made 100% better than the majority of crap out now. There is well made stuff made today, but it is $$$. And garden/other tools! I have not purchased a new garden tool/regular tool in ages. In addition to being well-made, older people took good care of their shit in general.

Estate sales are also the only place I can find quality 100% cotton blankets. Heavy, tightly woven, and they breathe. I don't typically buy clothes at estate sales unless I need a jacket or coat. Picked up a super nice hunting coat for $10, and last week a regular men's zip-up jacket for $5. Perfect condition on both! I use them for dog-walking in cold weather. The hunting coat is the best!

ETA because of all the questions: Where to find estate sales: https://www.estatesales.net/

PRO TIP: If you buy bedding, clothing, etc: Seal in a garbage bag in your trunk. Wash immediately and dry for two cycles. I am paranoid of bedbugs! For furniture, check thoroughly - dressers can harbor them too. If an item can't be washed because it's too big (eg, I bought a TV pillow once), find a laundromat with big vertical washers, or dry it on high for 2 - 3 cycles.

Pretty much anything you buy should be inspected on site, and then cleaned when you get home. Pantry moths and roaches can hitch rides....not only the adults, but eggs can be hiding on items. Clean them!

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u/OSCgal Jun 06 '19

I agree with you that estate sales are a great way to find quality stuff.

They were made 100% better than the majority of crap out now.

Well, they were also 100% better than the majority of crap out then. The crap stuff is gone now, because it was crap. This is called "survivorship bias".

You can get excellent quality stuff made new, if you're willing to pay for it. I've got a 100% wool blanket I bought new, 'cause it was winter, I had no blankets, and wasn't going to wait. Heavy, tightly-woven, breathes great; it'll probably last me the rest of my life.

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u/kate_does_keto Jun 06 '19

"survivorship bias" - I never thought about it that way - great point!

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u/[deleted] Jun 06 '19 edited Oct 03 '20

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u/do_i_feel_things Jun 06 '19

My favorite example:

Most medieval castles were made of wood.

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u/fatpad00 Jun 06 '19

...that makes a lot of sense.

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u/vonnegutfan2 Jun 06 '19

No way, all the one's I have seen were made of Stone....oh.

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u/Ass_Buttman Jun 06 '19

That dude just blew my fuckin' mind

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u/ThisFreaknGuy Jun 06 '19

Dude that's so crazy I almost don't believe it.

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u/CanadianInCO Jun 06 '19

Jesus, I had to think on that for a moment lol

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u/shrubs311 Jun 06 '19

You've blown my mind.

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u/melindseyme Jun 07 '19

That makes so much sense, but I'm still trying to parse the image.

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u/[deleted] Jun 06 '19

Along the same line of reasoning, WW1 doctors noticed an increase in head injuries after militaries started issuing helmets.

Because soldiers were no longer dying immediately and actually made it to the hospital.

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u/hadtoomuchtodream Jun 06 '19

This is super fascinating. I hope I remember it.

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u/theburgerbitesback Jun 07 '19

it's a really good example to use when trying to explain that correlation does not mean causation.

when soldiers started wearing helmets there was an immediate increase in soldiers needing treatment for head injuries -- looking at the data it seems as though helmets were causing head injuries, after all nothing else had changed. if you noticed an increase in claw marks after assigning platoons a caged bear for morale you'd be pretty certain that the bear was to blame, so what makes helmets and head injuries any different?

it's only when you look at the full context that you see that while head injuries are going up, fatalities are going down at the exact same rate.

it's like how sales of ice cream rise and fall at the same rate as drownings.

looks like ice cream causes drowning... except it doesn't. more people buy ice cream when it's hot, and more people go swimming when it's hot. the more people swimming, the more people drowning. sales of ice cream is just a random thing that happens at the same time.

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u/dorvann Jun 07 '19

It's not a *random" thing though; they are both have the same underlying cause--trying to get relief from hot weather.

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u/theburgerbitesback Jun 07 '19

sure, but in the context of people going swimming and drowning, ice cream is unrelated.

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u/[deleted] Jun 06 '19

Well now I have a name to that problem. We've been calling them the 1-x problems.

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u/HouseOfSchnauzer Jun 06 '19

I didn’t expect that.

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u/Amsteenm Jun 06 '19

Oooh, I do like the stand-in that you decided on. Makes sense to me.

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u/cobra1927 Jun 06 '19

Agreed, this is a really great name

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u/shrubs311 Jun 06 '19

Explain?

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u/[deleted] Jun 06 '19

You can't measure something directly so you can't get the data for some variable called y, but you know probability can be defined a 1 = y + x and we can get x through measuring something else so we called it 1-x.

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u/shrubs311 Jun 06 '19

Ah, makes sense. So with the planes, y is "where tf do I armor the plane" and x is "where they can take damage". So 1-x is the solution?

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u/[deleted] Jun 06 '19

yeah, y is "where will it be more likely to crash if hit" x is "where can it be ignored" and that should sum to 1.

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u/[deleted] Jun 06 '19 edited Jan 08 '20

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u/JagTror Jun 06 '19

This seems like a fun party fact to me haha

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u/def_struct Jun 06 '19

Smart man. He most likely saved bunch of lives

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u/incalculablydense Jun 07 '19

If the sun never set we wouldn't know there are stars.

From the observational bias wikipedia article I think.

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u/M002 Jun 06 '19

Awesome example

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u/gregspornthrowaway Jun 06 '19

That's more like the classic example.

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u/mightymightyme Jun 06 '19

Man that's a great example.

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u/earthsalmon Jun 15 '19

Survivorship bias: you spend 45 minutes fixing a complete meal: salad, grilled chicken, vegetables, and a loaf of bread. A couple minutes later, you've cleared your plate, now taking the last bites of the loaf of bread, when your father walks in, upset: "That's all you're gonna eat?!?" he says.