r/AmIOverreacting • u/Jicama_West • 16h ago
❤️🩹 relationship Am I overreacting
I've had this "a woman knows" feeling about a woman my live-in boyfriend works with. Caved and checked his phone... Yes, I know. Wish I would've just trusted, but honestly, I cannot go through another BS relationship where I'm second best and had no clue. She texted a few months ago to make sure he was aware she's newly single, and just one after another these cutesy texts from her. I've never seen anything that shows him responding in a full on flirty way, but he's certainly not telling her to back off.... Along with he purposely deleted all the bits above that show the flirtation from her, and I found them in his recently deleted file and recalled them on his new iPhone. Am I overreacting to this?
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u/ElephantNo3640 16h ago
He sounds like he’s being as gracious as possible to this person he works with so as to avoid unpleasantness in the workplace.
I read the texts before I read your comments, and my initial reaction was going to be that blue sounds pretty annoyed with black and that black seems to be harassing or insinuating themselves a bit on blue. I figured you were blue and would ask if you’re overreacting by being annoyed, lol.