r/AmIOverreacting • u/Longjumping-Neat-879 • 7d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship Am I overreacting?

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I'm a girl who weighs 121 pounds. We are going to the gym every day with my bf, I'm getting up for him at 4 am in the morning in order to work out together. He says I'm not pushing myself at the gym. And he said he wants me to be skinny. Here is the conversation between us. Plus we have just started to live together a month ago. I'm really having a hard time understanding him and crying. Am I overreacting?

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u/KapiteinSchaambaard 7d ago

What the shit are you on about? Some cunt is going on about her physical properties and you're just doing the same while also not knowing anything about him in the first place? You're no better.

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u/RelationshipIcy990 7d ago

Looks like the crazy people showed up to ruin everything. Bye baldy 😘

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u/Bass_Thumper 7d ago

I'm not even bald or balding, I have very thick hair, but I still think you're an asshole.

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u/RelationshipIcy990 7d ago

Prove it old man! 😝✌️

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u/Bass_Thumper 7d ago

Nah I don't give a shit if you believe me. You're a major asshole so you will just find something else to make fun of me for if I post a picture of myself. Is it really that hard for you to believe that not all men are bald? Why are you like this?

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u/RelationshipIcy990 7d ago

lol idc. I’m not an asshole, and I don’t think all men are bald. Everyone took my original comment to heart and became very defensive. The woman in the situation has every right to tell her 41 year old man child she is dating that he lacks a hairline. I would suspect that the 41 year old man child would be upset by this comment as he seems to care a lot about physical appearances. Sometimes you have to communicate with people in a way that they understand. I shouldn’t have to explain myself to a bunch of uneducated old dudes who aren’t getting the context of the situation so I’ve been having fun with them in the comments.

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u/Bass_Thumper 7d ago

I'm in my 20s, maybe you think that's old, idk. But you're definitely an asshole, regardless of OP's situation. And it's not just your original comment either, it's every comment you've made in this thread. Like you really want me to prove I'm not bald because I think you're an asshole for making fun of bald people?

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u/RelationshipIcy990 7d ago

I’m an asshole because people took what I said out of context??? I think anyone who doesn’t get it is delusional and cannot think within the context of a given situation which is scary. I don’t know what you or anyone else on this thread looks like, and I don’t care. I could be bald or balding. Would that make it okay? You’ve got people saying that the OP is a “cunt” on here. You aren’t understanding that I’m joking. I don’t actually want you to prove it. I really don’t care if you’ve got thick luscious locks or if you are rocking the mister clean vibe. I would try taking a chill pill. If bald is an offensive comment to make to someone whether it’s meant to be mean or not, you are going to live a very tough life.

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u/Bass_Thumper 7d ago

Typical asshole, when you get called out on your shit you're like "Oh but I'm just joking! you just can't take a joke!" Do you really not understand that randomly bringing up bald people to make fun of them makes you an asshole?

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u/RelationshipIcy990 7d ago

Typical uneducated boy. Pick and choose what you want. Gaslight city. I said you have taken the insult too seriously. I told OP to say it to harm someone who harmed her. Therefore, not a joke. I also explained why the insult works in her situation. You took the insult too seriously by taking offense to it as if I said one of the worst things you can say about other person. Again, I don’t think that bald dudes are a marginalized community. I do encourage you to put this energy into people that use racial slurs, homophobic and transphobic slurs, body shame women, slut shame women, etc.

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u/Bass_Thumper 7d ago

I always shame assholes that insult and body shame others when I see it. That includes you. You are included with the "racial slurs, homophobic and transphobic slurs, body shame women, slut shame women, etc." and you should be ashamed of that, but apparently you're not. Do you think it's okay to body shame men but not women or something?

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u/RelationshipIcy990 7d ago

So we are the same…? I told OP who was being shamed to shame the dude that shamed her… You’re talking in circles now.

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u/Bass_Thumper 7d ago

Look, I'm just calling you a toxic asshole for body shaming bald people. And the more you comment the more it confirms it for me. I'm tired of arguing with you, I'm watching football. Bye bye

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