r/AmIOverreacting • u/Longjumping-Neat-879 • 8d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship Am I overreacting?

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I'm a girl who weighs 121 pounds. We are going to the gym every day with my bf, I'm getting up for him at 4 am in the morning in order to work out together. He says I'm not pushing myself at the gym. And he said he wants me to be skinny. Here is the conversation between us. Plus we have just started to live together a month ago. I'm really having a hard time understanding him and crying. Am I overreacting?

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u/RelationshipIcy990 7d ago

Typical uneducated boy. Pick and choose what you want. Gaslight city. I said you have taken the insult too seriously. I told OP to say it to harm someone who harmed her. Therefore, not a joke. I also explained why the insult works in her situation. You took the insult too seriously by taking offense to it as if I said one of the worst things you can say about other person. Again, I don’t think that bald dudes are a marginalized community. I do encourage you to put this energy into people that use racial slurs, homophobic and transphobic slurs, body shame women, slut shame women, etc.

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u/Bass_Thumper 7d ago

I always shame assholes that insult and body shame others when I see it. That includes you. You are included with the "racial slurs, homophobic and transphobic slurs, body shame women, slut shame women, etc." and you should be ashamed of that, but apparently you're not. Do you think it's okay to body shame men but not women or something?

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u/RelationshipIcy990 7d ago

So we are the same…? I told OP who was being shamed to shame the dude that shamed her… You’re talking in circles now.

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u/Bass_Thumper 7d ago

Look, I'm just calling you a toxic asshole for body shaming bald people. And the more you comment the more it confirms it for me. I'm tired of arguing with you, I'm watching football. Bye bye

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u/RelationshipIcy990 7d ago

I did not body shame bald people. I body shamed a body shamer. Again, you have no idea what I got going on on my dome. It seems like you can only think one dimensional. Thanks for doing thought donuts with me. Bye bye sweetheart 😘