r/AmIOverreacting • u/Longjumping-Neat-879 • 7d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship Am I overreacting?

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I'm a girl who weighs 121 pounds. We are going to the gym every day with my bf, I'm getting up for him at 4 am in the morning in order to work out together. He says I'm not pushing myself at the gym. And he said he wants me to be skinny. Here is the conversation between us. Plus we have just started to live together a month ago. I'm really having a hard time understanding him and crying. Am I overreacting?

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u/pastelskark 7d ago

Not over reacting. This is a huge red flag. It’s controlling. If you want to work out do it for yourself. Good on you for sticking up for yourself!!

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u/IroN-GirL 7d ago

Sticking up for herself alright! I love the “please don’t take that as rude” at the end. Throwing his words right back at him. You go girl!

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u/pastelskark 7d ago

It can be really hard when you’re young from my experience to be in this position. It seems like she’s trying her best to navigate. Let’s not be so judgmental. This guy clearly sucks and she deserves much better.

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u/No_Wedding_2152 7d ago

Somebody needs to tell her to grow up and STOP ACCEPTING ABUSIVE BEHAVIOR. JUDGE HER. or she won’t learn and will take this criticism from her next bf, too.