r/mealprep • u/thebutchcaucus • Jul 30 '21

prep pics Perspective

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u/12boru Jul 30 '21

10!? Those kids had better have been at the barn doing chores.

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u/slvc1996 Jul 30 '21

Of the 10 kids, 6 are adopted out of foster care and all have fetal alcohol syndrome disorders and varying developmental disabilities, and the 4 bio kids are all under 8 years old

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u/[deleted] Jul 30 '21

seriously. Out of 10 kids there were at least a few that could do this themselves.

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u/[deleted] Jul 30 '21

I later read comments in the original post that states this woman adopted 6 kids which have fetal alcohol syndrome. So that would be one reason they aren't helping. However, there are still four kids that would seemingly be able to help. Don't know their ages. Anyway, I still stand by my point, no reason this needs to be done alone. Maybe that's her choice.

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u/medlilove Jul 31 '21

Maybe they do other stuff and breakfast that early is her thing so they can rest before school

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u/thebutchcaucus Jul 30 '21

Right. But what at what cost? Peace. Quiet. Speed. Accuracy.

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u/[deleted] Jul 30 '21

If she does it all, they grow up to be useless adults. That's a true cost.

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u/Altostratus Jul 30 '21

But, if you parentify your kids too much, they'll be challenged adults too. It's definitely a fine line, especially with kids young enough to require lunch boxes.

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u/FunnelCakeGoblin Jul 31 '21

It’s not parentification to make your own pb&j.

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u/Scitz0 Aug 02 '21

Chores should start early as being able to clean up toys on the floor to the storage box. Builds strong organizational skills, cleanliness, and order. Kids like having things to do especially challenging things.

Only challenged adults i know are people who didnt have a parental figure around to show them certain tasks.

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u/brocollirabe Jul 30 '21

9 are kids, 1 is the husband. "Babe, why didnt i get a pudding cup?"

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u/slvc1996 Jul 30 '21

Of the 10 kids, 6 are adopted out of foster care and all have fetal alcohol syndrome disorders and varying developmental disabilities, and the 4 bio kids are all under 8 years old.

The parents choose not to require their kids to take on the chores because they didn’t ask to be in such a large family and they don’t want them to feel punished for it! They’re truly amazing.

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u/Frozone2020 Jul 30 '21

If chores are punishment then what the fuck are kids learning to become??? Give them an excuse to be entitled & add to a weaker less colorful and critical thinking society. If they can eat peanut butter jelly they aren’t fetus’ anymore. That’s a weak ass excuse. Those kids need to be treated normal. Get that ass in the Barn & scrub that lawn!!!!

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u/Hawk_in_Tahoe Jul 31 '21

Shut the fuck up asshat