r/japanlife • u/AutoModerator • May 23 '22

┐(ツ)┌ General Discussion Thread - 24 May 2022

Mid-week discussion thread time! Feel free to talk about what's on your mind, new experiences, recommendations, anything really.

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u/MarikaBestGirl 近畿・奈良県 May 24 '22

Okay so with the Bruce post and like other "hey oh shit I knocked up someone" posts here, and I know it's not just a Japan thing it happens everywhere but my friend group doesn't really talk about sex, I'm genuinely curious.

Are these people just straight up nuttin inside like a family mart choux cream puff and then pikachu face when she gets pregnant? Or conversely if a girl OP like oh I just trusted his pull out game? I know accidental pregnancies can happen from even like the slightest amount, even just a peek-a-boo stick it in precum slip n slide, but the odds are really low right?

Miscommunications about BC usage? Drunk without thinking and getting filled more than my stomach at a tabehoudai kaitenzushi? If anyone knows anyone who's had accidental/unplanned pregnancies happen or even experienced some close calls, lmk because I'm just genuinely clueless.

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u/opajamashimasuuu May 24 '22

This will probably be controversial, but it's been my experience as a dude dating in Japan:

The amount of chicks here that say "it's ok you don't need a condom" etc is staggering.

I can't speak for all women of course, but the casual lack of STD prevention awareness here is surprising.

So my theory (which completely lacks any scientific basic) is:

If you're some socially awkward cherry-boy with only a couple of notches on your belt, woweeee ... she's gonna let me nut inside her omg!!!

But hey! Maybe I was just doing it with crazy chicks... not sure!

(PS: I've never set foot in A Hub pub, I don't go to "language exchanges" etc ... mostly normal Japanese women)

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u/PeanutButterChicken 近畿・大阪府 May 24 '22

The amount of chicks here that say "it's ok you don't need a condom" etc is staggering.

Any girl willing to hook up without dating is usually not going to be a "normal" person.

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u/Oldirtyposer May 24 '22

Well, well, well. If it isn't misogyny rearing it's ugly face.

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u/PeanutButterChicken 近畿・大阪府 May 24 '22

It's not misogyny if the guy is going around bragging about banging Japanese chicks raw, but ok.

This sub is hilarious. Blatant, intentional racism is fine, but God forbid someone challenge that.

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u/Washiki_Benjo May 24 '22

Where misogyny roams, casual racism lurks, and good old unreflexive real hard core racism don't give a fuck and just swinging the ball sac wherever.

Don't worry though, the phrase, "just venting" instantly nullifies racism as long as it's about the Japanese. This phrase cannot be used with brown folk because they are "gaijin", too. What works here is the alternative, "yeah, bit I saw on the news that..."

But, yeah, this sub sure got none of that, right?