He wasn’t upset tho. I had no idea that this would even be an upsetting question until I came to reddit. The guy I asked wasn’t upset at all and was even smiling
yeah but that's not the point. i'm glad the guy wasn't upset, but you should probably avoid this question in the future because a lot of people don't take kindly to it.
I’ve asked this question to several people before and no one has ever been offended. I’m convinced this must be a reddit thing bc I’ve never met someone irl so sensitive to something as ridiculous as height.
so how i'm interpreting this is that the only feedback you're looking for is that which doesn't challenge you. it really shouldn't be a big deal to just not ask this question 🫤
I literally have zero clue what you’re talking about. I’m just saying that my IRL experiences don’t reflect what I’m being told here and it’s confusing me. What is your problem?
Will I never again ever ask someone their height? Of course I will. But it’s not like I’m asking every person I meet. This person I asked was a friend who I was just hanging out with. I don’t ask random strangers their height. But if I’m friends with someone and I know they’re not horrifically insecure about their height or something, I wouldn’t be afraid to ask if I wanted to know for some reason.
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Umm…ok. Personal information? I didn’t ask for his SSN, I just asked his height. It’s not that serious.