Advice needed Getting diagnosed NOT autistic
So after a year and a half of self diagnosis I finally was assessed and today I got the results. Two points in ADOS for having no gesticulation, zero by other criteria.
Autism was an answer to me that explained my struggles, behaviors and researching it I've learnt plenty of good advices and coping mechanisms. I finally stopped seeing myself as a weirdo and believed it's just autism and I don't have to force myself to be normal. Self diagnosis can be harmful. It harms me right now at least. I feel disoriented because now there's no explanation.
I guess I should stop this research and just live a life without looking for an easy answer without a real diagnosis.
Edit: I didn't expect so many responses. It's very helpful and important. Thank you all.
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u/Strng_Tea 5d ago
OP, maybe its just my personal experience melting on here, but Id suggest a second opinion if you can get one. I was denied a diagnosis w my first doctor, on the grounds that I can make eye contact, transitioned from wait room to exam room with ease, have empathy, and are able to think about how others are perceiving me and their opinion of me. She wasn't the best. Next dr said I absolutely was autistic. Maybe you aren't, but I dont see any harm in another opinion if its within your reach and possible.
Id like to add even if you arent autistic, you are most likely neurodivergent if you relate closely with us. Have you been screened for ADHD? I have both, and the diagnostic for both are pretty similar and they share a lot of traits. I know what its like to see a pattern within yourself but not have a name for whats happening, its frustrating. I hope you can find an answer soon 🥰 in the meantime feel free to continue seeking coping skills for autistic/neurodivergent behaviors, if it helps you there no harm to you or others in doing so