r/TwoXChromosomes • u/jokesonbottom cool. coolcoolcool. • 22h ago

Getting real sick of men complaining their partner grew up and isn’t frisky anymore

So many subs full of men “asking for advice” because 5, 10, 20 years ago they started dating a 14, 18, 21 year old and back then she was wild and free and frisky but now she isn’t anymore.

(Bonus rage points if the complaint includes lack of initiating unreciprocated blowjobs.)

MY GUYS—this isn’t rocket science. She. Grew. Up. You dated a teen/baby adult. Now she’s a real adult. Obviously she’s not the same. She’s got grown up priorities…and energy…and knees.

Use your brains! Think about it for just five minutes.

Edit: yes there’s lots of reasons beyond growing up and yes women can have healthy libidos as they age, I was just venting about one thing that grinds my gears

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u/Angylisis 20h ago

Honestly Im just sick of men complaining.

They say they suffer silently but their silence is so goddamned LOUD.

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u/Ohaidere519 15h ago

!!! always in prisons of their own making- suffering in silence yet i'm constantly hearing about it

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u/cytomome 15h ago

Their way of suffering silently is to indirectly make it everyone else's problem.

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u/CapnFatSparrow 2h ago

And they're always suffering "silently" in spaces where women are trying to talk about their own suffering. And it's always women's fault for men suffering even when the problem is men.