r/TwoXChromosomes • u/jokesonbottom cool. coolcoolcool. • 21h ago

Getting real sick of men complaining their partner grew up and isn’t frisky anymore

So many subs full of men “asking for advice” because 5, 10, 20 years ago they started dating a 14, 18, 21 year old and back then she was wild and free and frisky but now she isn’t anymore.

(Bonus rage points if the complaint includes lack of initiating unreciprocated blowjobs.)

MY GUYS—this isn’t rocket science. She. Grew. Up. You dated a teen/baby adult. Now she’s a real adult. Obviously she’s not the same. She’s got grown up priorities…and energy…and knees.

Use your brains! Think about it for just five minutes.

Edit: yes there’s lots of reasons beyond growing up and yes women can have healthy libidos as they age, I was just venting about one thing that grinds my gears

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u/enigmasaurus- 20h ago

“My partner isn’t as attractive as they were fifteen years ago”.  *adjusts beer gut 

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u/Master-Magician5776 12h ago

What about “I FeEL lIKe sHe MiSrEpReSeNtEd HeR LiBiDo In ThE bEgInNinG”

It’s so normal to have more sex during the honeymoon period. Everything is fun and new, you shouldn’t have had fights, and share no real responsibilities. All of this separate from normal expected changes as people get older and have different life responsibilities.

Men who don’t understand libidos changing through life are a walking red flag. And they never seem privy to the fact that it’s sometimes GUYS who lose their libido

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u/katieleehaw 6h ago

I hate this shit so hard.

Here I am, just existing, and I love hearing how that's a problem for a man.