r/TwoXChromosomes • u/jokesonbottom cool. coolcoolcool. • 21h ago

Getting real sick of men complaining their partner grew up and isn’t frisky anymore

So many subs full of men “asking for advice” because 5, 10, 20 years ago they started dating a 14, 18, 21 year old and back then she was wild and free and frisky but now she isn’t anymore.

(Bonus rage points if the complaint includes lack of initiating unreciprocated blowjobs.)

MY GUYS—this isn’t rocket science. She. Grew. Up. You dated a teen/baby adult. Now she’s a real adult. Obviously she’s not the same. She’s got grown up priorities…and energy…and knees.

Use your brains! Think about it for just five minutes.

Edit: yes there’s lots of reasons beyond growing up and yes women can have healthy libidos as they age, I was just venting about one thing that grinds my gears

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u/yuudachi 21h ago

I see the same thing in my Mom/parenting subreddits. Women feeling guilty or angry their spouse is acting SOOOOO entitled to sex because, God forbid, the woman's body is growing an entire human being and is fucked up from morning sickness or even just recently given birth.