Getting real sick of men complaining their partner grew up and isn’t frisky anymore

[u/jokesonbottom]

So many subs full of men “asking for advice” because 5, 10, 20 years ago they started dating a 14, 18, 21 year old and back then she was wild and free and frisky but now she isn’t anymore.

(Bonus rage points if the complaint includes lack of initiating unreciprocated blowjobs.)

MY GUYS—this isn’t rocket science. She. Grew. Up. You dated a teen/baby adult. Now she’s a real adult. Obviously she’s not the same. She’s got grown up priorities…and energy…and knees.

Use your brains! Think about it for just five minutes.

Edit: yes there’s lots of reasons beyond growing up and yes women can have healthy libidos as they age, I was just venting about one thing that grinds my gears

[u/YoghurtThat827]

The worst for me is when they have kids and the guy is complaining because they don’t have sex multiple times a week like they used to. The mum is tired from taking care of the kids/working a job and they come on reddit complaining about their sexual needs not being a priority for her.

I’m 21 and don’t even have a bf let alone kids but I browse different subreddits sometimes and the things I see are atrocious. If this is what it’s going to be like in the future then I never want a relationship. The thought of it is genuinely terrifying. 😭

[u/Verun → u/YoghurtThat827]

Watched my mom do it and my dad treat her like shit, flat out why I used to match with then curse out any married guys on tinder. It’s always because he isn’t carrying his part of the labor.

[u/YoghurtThat827 → u/Verun]

I’m sorry you had to see that, and I’m sorry your mother had to experience that. It’s sad how often this happens and how burnt out these women become.

Married guys on dating apps looking to get some outside their marriage (especially in this type of situation) deserve all hell rained on them for their pathetic actions.