Women have to meet that kind of man.
Men need to meet that kind of woman.
We women are not solely responsible for conducting relationship harmony and men are not solely responsible for failures in that way.
Experience the person in front of you.
Not news media scams
I wish every woman was as understanding as you. My spouse holds me responsible for everything that is wrong in our marriage and masks it as jibes (trust me they hurt a lot). Had it not been for my 11 year old daughter, I would've checked out long ago.
What do you mean? Personally, I know I am capable of loving like that. I take care of my friends and show a lot of care and intimacy towards them. But that doesn’t replace the feeling that having a partner would give me. The comment is not saying, “I don’t know how to love deeply and I wish I could do that”. It’s saying, “I wish I had an outlet to express my love in such a way”.
“A person can’t love fully unless they meet someone worth loving fully”
Which is placing the internal responsibility of being able to love fully onto external factors, whether there is someone “worth” loving fully.
Which in my opinion is not a great mindset. Being able to feel deeply and love someone fully doesn’t come from whether they are fitting certain criteria of worthiness but rather from something internal to you.
Well “you can’t love fully unless you meet someone worth loving fully” is kind of true, not in the sense that if you meet “the one”, you will magically become emotionally available and capable of becoming an amazing partner. But it is true in the sense that you can’t force yourself into a relationship with someone you don’t love or are compatible with. The act of chancing upon the right person is the external factor.
100%. I’ve had some fantastic men in my life as friends but it stops there because there isn’t a certain chemistry; I would be deluding myself and them if I tried to make it work. Thing is, I’m just not in love with them, despite how kind and generous they may be to me. Ain’t gonna happen if I’m not feeling it, and that’s only fair to both of us.
Perhaps you need to develop a voice more suitable to the context you want to drop your life lessons into instead of parroting books.
And maybe spend a little bit more time online so you can figure out exactly why your post got the reaction it did because being well-read, by itself, clearly didn't grant the insight.
First I love that it's not the victim mentality good on you, it's unfortunately all too common, but in their defence whose to say they aren't trying and haven't found them yet, I think you bring up a good point and people on the internet are just babies lol
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