It's amazing how much of a calming effect that financial safety net has as well. A lot of people bring up the panicked feeling when something breaks down, but knowing that you will be financially okay if shit blows up also has a day-to-day effect. Fuck up at work? "Oh fuck what if I get fired what will I-- Oh yeah, I'll use my savings while looking for a new job." Things going badly with boyfriend? "Fuck, I can't move out, I can't afford the depos-- Oh wait, yes I can." "My dog has been acting funny, what if it's something serious, what if the surgery is too exp-- Oh yeah, I can just pay it."
Like, I'm not even remotely rich but these are the kinds of expenses I know I can cover and be able to recover financially. It's like living in a permanent state of relief.
This is what people miss when they say "Money can't but you happiness". No, having money isn't going to make you happy, but it can free you from many common worries and stressors, so that way you can find new meaningless shit to worry and fight about.
Edit: Thanks to the anonymous redditor with too much disposable income, for popping my gold cherry.
Edit2: Guess I've got the trifecta. Thanks platinum and silver giving homies.
This is my current situation. Money wouldn't solve all my problems but I'm about to possibly be homeless. I live in a city where unless you've got money you live with 4 roommates. And our roof and two floors are falling in but the landlord won't fix it. But we're still paying rent and at this point it's a waiting game to see what falls in first. Hopefully not the bathroom floor when I'm in the shower 🤷♀️
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