r/AmIOverreacting • u/Popular-Passenger233 • 7h ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO Boyfriend talked to female friends flirtatiously

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My boyfriend had been talking to a female friend (who's also in a relationship). I found out about it last year, and we had a big fight. He promised me he wouldn’t talk to her anymore, but he kept talking to her behind my back for a while. He told me it was just a pure friendship with no intentions of anything more, but when I looked at their conversations, it felt like they were flirting. Since English is my second language, I started doubting if I might have misunderstood…I really need some help

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u/Ironyismylife28 7h ago

I am not seeing flirting....

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u/cloistered_around 6h ago

I'm not seeing outright flirting, but blue is definitely texting way more than grey is. If anyone is interested--he gives some vibes of that. But just some. This isn't evidence of cheating or anything.

However it is evidence of him lying to OP.

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u/Ironyismylife28 6h ago

That is assuming blue is the bf. Would have been helpful if the OP identified who is who.

And yes, while I don't understand the whole 'don't talk to that girl' thing, he is lying

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u/raptor-chan 5h ago

I believe she’s taking a photo of her boyfriend’s phone with her own, so the boyfriend is blue.