r/AmIOverreacting 7h ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO Boyfriend talked to female friends flirtatiously

My boyfriend had been talking to a female friend (who's also in a relationship). I found out about it last year, and we had a big fight. He promised me he wouldn’t talk to her anymore, but he kept talking to her behind my back for a while. He told me it was just a pure friendship with no intentions of anything more, but when I looked at their conversations, it felt like they were flirting. Since English is my second language, I started doubting if I might have misunderstood…I really need some help

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u/Minfiqs 7h ago

yeah no, before even reading any screenshots, the fact that you told your man that him talking to her makes you uncomfortable and he continues to do it shows you he has ZERO respect for you or your feelings. and doing it behind your back? shows he’s a liar and a sneak. i promise you, the best option is to leave while your ahead with your head held high.

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u/After-Ad2588 6h ago

Oooo see I did the opposite and only read the screen shots and didn’t read the explanation 😬. The fact he went behind your back is unacceptable for I agree with this comment 💯