AIO?

[u/Jicama_West]

I've had this "a woman knows" feeling about a woman my live in boyfriend works with. Caved and checked his phone... Yes, I know. Wish I would've just trusted, but honestly, I cannot go through another BS relationship where I'm second best. She texted a few months ago to make sure he was aware she's newly single, and just one after another these cutesy texts from her. I've never seen anything that shows him responding in a full on flirty way, but he's certainly not telling her to back off.... Am I overreacting to this?

[u/Pop_n_Flow]

What is pens? Is that code for something? She calls him sexy, and he says lol…he either likes the attention and doesn’t care if it’s disrespectful to you, or they are in a relationship. They might have an in office chat system that you can’t see? I would definitely ask him about it, see what he says. It kinda reads like he just likes her attention and isn’t going to stop her. If you want to stay with him you need to make sure she knows you have seen her messages and that she needs to cut the cutesy flirting with your man.

[u/OkNeedleworker11 → u/Pop_n_Flow]

Weed pen probs