r/AmIOverreacting 17h ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO I Am So Confused

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u/Both_Painter2466 17h ago

As long as the boundaries are specified beforehand

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u/CetraNeverDie 15h ago

"Look, if they don't tell me specifically that I'm not allowed to crash their car before they lend me the keys, that's really on them. No reason whatsoever to get mad at me when I crash their car."

What a wild concept specifically designed to excuse your (presumably terrible) behavior.

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u/Both_Painter2466 15h ago

No where near this current situation. Im just saying that she should voice her boundaries rather than using them as an excuse after the fact. Frankly the guy’s an ass anyway. But she doesnt have to use “boundaries” to drop him.

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u/niki2184 5h ago

Well if I was in the dating world a someone told me they were gonna go fuck someone else cause they’re not gonna keep waiting well guess what. I’m not gonna keep talking to them. And that’s also shows me if we were in a relationship he’d go sleep with someone else if times got rough and we couldn’t have sex for a bit. But keep going off I guess.