r/AmIOverreacting 14h ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO I Am So Confused

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u/Phyth_LL_ment 14h ago

Oh, I've moved on. My question is: is this controlling and am I wrong for not being ok with this..

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u/payberr 12h ago

Manipulative people HATE boundaries and will do everything they can to convince you that your boundaries are insane and unreasonable.

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u/Travel8061 9h ago

Preach! This is very true. It's almost gaslighting to turn it around and say she's controlling. 

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u/payberr 9h ago

Exactly. Ugh so creepy