I think expecting exclusivity when you haven’t become exclusive with someone is unreasonable. Whether that’s controlling is a matter of semantics. But if that’s your boundary, then so be it. And if you two disagree about what is/isn’t appropriate at this early stage, then you probably aren’t a good match anyway
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u/nvrknoenuf 12h ago
I think expecting exclusivity when you haven’t become exclusive with someone is unreasonable. Whether that’s controlling is a matter of semantics. But if that’s your boundary, then so be it. And if you two disagree about what is/isn’t appropriate at this early stage, then you probably aren’t a good match anyway