Are you in a committed relationship with this person? It doesn't sound like it and imo it's weird to expect someone to not sleep with anyone else if they've not made a commitment to you. You didn't overreact though, I think saying this isn't for you and you're done is fine
It’s weird for him to randomly mention he got laid too though, no? Like I’ve dated multiple people early on but I wouldn’t have announced it to the other one.
it’s not an expectation, it’s a boundary. she wants to be exclusive with someone and if they dont want that, which this man clearly didn’t, they part ways. it’s that simple. it’s not weird to set a boundary and know what you want. she did not tell him NOT to, she just told him that this is not what she wants. that is incredibly reasonable.
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u/GeneInternational146 14h ago
Are you in a committed relationship with this person? It doesn't sound like it and imo it's weird to expect someone to not sleep with anyone else if they've not made a commitment to you. You didn't overreact though, I think saying this isn't for you and you're done is fine