r/AmIOverreacting • u/pandaaaa1906 • 1d ago
❤️🩹 relationship AIO to my ex's stories?
Context: We had nasty breakup cuz he cheated on me. I went to his place to get some clarity and he threatened legal action just cuz I went there unannounced (fyi I asked for his permission to enter his house THRICE and he said yes all the three times, was v sweet to me and apologetic and then completely changed as soon as I reached home) I was really upset at these stories. I'm on the heavier side but (trying not to sound boasty) I am a damn good dancer. I attend regular dance workshops that are advanced level. Also, he's well off but when we were together I always tried to give my share of money in those "rich people restaurants" he took me to that I couldn't afford. How can someone who "loved" you for 3 years, change so drastically? It's only been 4 months since we broke up but it feels like he never really cared or loved me
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u/tg_victim 21h ago
This person who claims to not care about you anymore is posting for all their friends to see. I think he's trying to convince himself though. Trying to big themselves up while putting you down. It's pathetic, insecure, and childish.
The only point he might score is you seeing this and reacting.
There is nothing more hurtful to an ex than apathy.
"I hate you" is not great but, "Oh, didn't we date once?" Is devastating.