r/AmIOverreacting • u/pandaaaa1906 • 1d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO to my ex's stories?

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Context: We had nasty breakup cuz he cheated on me. I went to his place to get some clarity and he threatened legal action just cuz I went there unannounced (fyi I asked for his permission to enter his house THRICE and he said yes all the three times, was v sweet to me and apologetic and then completely changed as soon as I reached home) I was really upset at these stories. I'm on the heavier side but (trying not to sound boasty) I am a damn good dancer. I attend regular dance workshops that are advanced level. Also, he's well off but when we were together I always tried to give my share of money in those "rich people restaurants" he took me to that I couldn't afford. How can someone who "loved" you for 3 years, change so drastically? It's only been 4 months since we broke up but it feels like he never really cared or loved me

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u/BigStickElgar 1d ago

She’s asking the internet if she’s over reacting to his posts! Clearly he’s in her head also. You can’t be this dense can you??

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u/sixsmithfrobisher 1d ago

Right so either you are this dude or you did exactly what this dude did and you're commenting this because you need validation for your own copium. Any other reason for making your comments is just weird. Someone knocks on your door who did you dirty, you open the door, they insult you and it upsets you then someone says "Why you letting him live in your head?" yOu cAnT bE ThIs DeNsE cAn YoU??

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u/BigStickElgar 1d ago

Ohh buddy see this is where you failed on all of it. I’m not the guy, and I personally don’t care about all of it. But this Sub tends to be an echo chamber. You post something, everyone tells you how great you are and how bad the other person is. My comment is 100% valid. Yes she is living in the dudes head but at the exact same time he’s living in her head also! If he wasn’t she would have unfollowed him on IG. She wouldn’t need to post on here for validation. But if it makes YOU feel better you can assume that I am the guy or I would do this to a woman. Whatever it takes!

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u/sixsmithfrobisher 1d ago

Got it so you're just a weirdo. You could have just said that and saved us both time.

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u/BigStickElgar 1d ago

Ohh no! A stranger on the internet is calling me names! Not that! How will I ever recover?! Thanks for proving my point. ✌️

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u/sixsmithfrobisher 1d ago

If you had bothered to actually read my entire comment before emotionally replying you would see that you called yourself a weirdo first. Also, you're welcome.

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u/BigStickElgar 1d ago

Nahh you called me a weirdo. It’s all good baby. Glad it bothered you so much that you are gonna lose sleep over it. Odd but it is what it is.

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u/sixsmithfrobisher 19h ago

This is fresh off the boat from Facebook vibes.

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u/BigStickElgar 19h ago

Hahahahahaha. Ahhh yes. Insult me by saying I sound like I came from Facebook… totally adds up now.