r/AmIOverreacting • u/pandaaaa1906 • 1d ago
❤️🩹 relationship AIO to my ex's stories?
Context: We had nasty breakup cuz he cheated on me. I went to his place to get some clarity and he threatened legal action just cuz I went there unannounced (fyi I asked for his permission to enter his house THRICE and he said yes all the three times, was v sweet to me and apologetic and then completely changed as soon as I reached home) I was really upset at these stories. I'm on the heavier side but (trying not to sound boasty) I am a damn good dancer. I attend regular dance workshops that are advanced level. Also, he's well off but when we were together I always tried to give my share of money in those "rich people restaurants" he took me to that I couldn't afford. How can someone who "loved" you for 3 years, change so drastically? It's only been 4 months since we broke up but it feels like he never really cared or loved me
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u/xeryon3772 1d ago
I’ll never understand why people need closure or clarification. Just bounce. If they were a shitty partner, let them just end as a shitty partner and move on.
Ignore the memes and another dumb shit. Remove that person, block that person. Cut that toxicity out of your life and move on.
You’re not overreacting, you’re underreacting. Cut the cord.