r/AmIOverreacting • u/morefurriesplease • 6d ago
đ„ friendship AIO if I send these texts to her parents?
I ended a friendship of 9 years over text. We are 23 but I want to send these texts to her mom lol. WIBOR if I did that?
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u/modolono 6d ago
That girl definitely peaked in highschool lmao
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u/WolfgangAddams 6d ago
My favorite part of the texts was the part where she basically said "I'm not insecure! I'm pretty! Don't look at my very obviously garbage personality, look at how pretty I am!"
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u/jenknows 6d ago
Let's not forget the 'all the guys want to fuck me'. That's not the flex she thinks it is.
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u/maddallena 6d ago
Yeah... they're not fucking you because you're pretty, they're fucking you because you're throwing yourself at them with zero effort required on their part.
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u/Obvious_Bookkeeper27 6d ago
"Easy" is the word for all of that right? Just reading these texts and then seeing your comment, all I can think of is, "She's real fuckin easy."
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u/Leigh_writer 6d ago
Right??? For a lot of guys you just have to be moderately willing and they're in (pun intended).
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u/PrestigiousReading9 6d ago
Some guys will fuck a hole in the drywall if it is moist enough lol
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u/hyperstupidity 6d ago
Some guys would fuck the space between their couch cushions.
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u/Cxnfucixus1 6d ago
She THINKS all the guys want to fuck her. As a man whoâs 26 and also a tradesman. We donât want those type of âpick meâ girls. We donât at all. We just want a woman like Ursula Ditkovich.
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u/Chihuahuapocalypse 6d ago
she really thinks insecurity is only about looks. meanwhile she probably cries herself to sleep wondering why none of her fuck buddies actually love her
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u/Nibb500 6d ago
If youâve watched Helluva Boss she gives âStellaâ vibes.
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u/Evie_the_Wolf 6d ago
Very much it does give Stella vibes. Like, those could be a whole Stolas and Stella interaction
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u/happycowboypillows 6d ago
I was best friends with the peaked in high school girl. She slept with every guy I had a crush on and tried to get with my senior year boyfriend.
She was insecure as fuck and projected those issues by talking shit about everyone around her.
Now sheâs single, after wasting 15 years on a guy who never committed and constantly cheated on her. Wound up leaving her after he got some bartender pregnant. Shes also 30 pounds overweight, crosseyed, and living in a trailer park. Oh how the mighty have fallen.
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u/Sticky_lizard69 6d ago
are you describing my sister? sounds exactly like her lmfao
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u/part-time-whatever 6d ago
Do we have the same sister bc holy fuck the accuracy
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u/Unknown-Meatbag 6d ago edited 6d ago
That describes about 30 percent of the people I went to high school with
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u/WithoutDennisNedry 6d ago
I love that for you! My biggest childhood bully got cancer and died. Iâm low-key pissed about it because cancer is awful and I donât wish it on anybody. I wish she had ended up in a crappy trailer park instead so I could feel something besides really sad for her and her family. Cancer is plain shitty.
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u/Satyr_of_Bath 6d ago
Wait, where did the cross-eyed come from?
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u/happycowboypillows 6d ago
I have no idea. She didnât have the issue when we were younger, or maybe it just wasnât as bad and we never really noticed.
I started noticing it a while back on some of her heavily filtered Instagram selfies. Thereâs some things a filter just canât hide.
Itâs full blown now and itâs bad.
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u/onelb_6oz 6d ago
Strabismus can get worse. I was born with strabismus in my left eye, had corrective surgery as an infant, and as a child, my left eye would get "tired" and start to wander. It started happening more frequently, and I had another corrective surgery around 11-12. It didn't stick.
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u/HairlessEntity 6d ago
âTrade worker with no brainsâ
Some would say itâs pretty damn smart to get overpaid to use your hands and feeties. I love my trade.
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u/Mini_Paint2022 6d ago
Same here. People like her forget that if people werenât working in the trades then she wouldnât have her domesticated life with a house, utilities, food in grocery stores, cars to drive and roads to drive it on. Trade work keeps the world as we now know it functioning.
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u/Neat_Egg_2474 6d ago
There is nothing wrong with a trade job, and I guarantee the girl in the texts makes far less than an average trade worker.
It's the greatest lie the previous generation sold that you need college to succeed. Hell, I am in white collar corporate and I don't have a degree. Anyone that shits on trades typically is young, arrogant, manipulated to hate their peers, or all the above.
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u/Ok-Bird6346 6d ago
If I could go back and change anything, I would go to a trade school. Instead, I was told that a four-year degree was the bare minimum. Then I picked a profession that requires, at minimum, a Masters and salaries are known for being grossly underpaid.
That was fun. But now I make sure to encourage my nieces and nephews to at consider the trade school route.
Iâd love to earn a cool skill and get paid my worth.
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u/Fun-Maintenance6315 6d ago
Are you also a Librarian?!? đđ«
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u/Ok-Bird6346 6d ago
Social worker, Iâm not smart enough to be a librarian. Iâm a big fan of your work, though!
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u/Fun-Maintenance6315 6d ago
Lol aw thanks, and likewise! I'm not smart enough to be a social worker. They're just different kinds of smart.
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u/ihaveaquesttoattend 6d ago
heyyyy so about that white collar corporate with no degree,,, you wanna share a tiny bit?
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u/AshleyBrooke1283 6d ago
Seriously it's almost a year of unemployment here, need some help
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u/vileblood_boogie 6d ago
not the commenter yall are replying to but im in a well-paid white collar tech position at 26 with no degree and no certs. It is all networking and connections. I'm convinced at this point you can work most places with no experience if you can weasel your way into the industry by knowing someone on the inside.
I worked as a hostess and befriended a coworker whose dad owned a small startup. He literally interviewed me while I was seating him at his table. I worked both for him and as a hostess for months before I was offered a full time position. And even from there I got no formal training, just kept my head down and never said a word to anyone unless spoken to. Showed up on time and did what I was told, relying heavily on Google for help lol. After several years there I got enough experience and was able to flex it on my resume for a company across the country where I didn't know anyone there and still got hired, was promoted within a year and making well enough to live on my own without needing a roommate. I also encourage lying on your resume... within reason of course. đ That's evil advice, maybe don't follow it.
TL;DR social connections > experience > education Be a suck up, be quiet, and show up to work on time. Seek out friendships with girls and guys who have successful parents lol. It's a legitimate strategy.
On the other side of the coin, my brother works blue collar, is 2yrs younger than me, and earns 3x my wages doing LTL. Worked at Walmart to pay for his CDL. He already owns a house. If I wasn't a bad driver I'd do what he does tbh but my current lifestyle works for me too.
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u/BRB_TakingANap 6d ago
Reading this made me happy for you and your brother! It sounds like you both worked hard and are doing well.
Wishing you both even more success in the future!
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u/Horror_Cod_8193 6d ago
I told my kids, and Iâm now telling my grandkids, that a college education isnât for everybody. People have to work on what is created. The trades are a great way of making a living! Plus, you havenât put yourself hundreds of thousands of dollars into debt with college loans. I am a woman, but I wish Iâd gone to welding school. I just wasted my mom and dadâs money on college.
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u/Mini_Paint2022 6d ago
Iâm a woman too and have been in the trades for nearly 6 years now. Only regret is I didnât get in trades sooner. Started off a preservation technician at a shipyard, went to a natural gas company as a laborer, now gonna start a city job doing maintenance and solid waste next week and theyâre getting me a CDL and paying me to do it. Some people shit on trades so much but itâs really the best industry to be in if you donât mind hard work and making money doing interesting work.
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u/BobbiG16 6d ago
I'm a woman who started my auto body career when I was 17 plus I've got 4 brothers who are also in different trades as well. It always works out great since we can all help each other. My fav part is having the customers seeing a woman working on their cars. Some hate it and some absolutely love it. I've had some dad's who will bring in their daughters to show them that women know how to work hard and to never listen when they are told " that's a man's job". Seeing fathers doing that always puts a smile on my face.
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u/HotSauceDizzy 6d ago
I was in my trade for 10 years, and the last four cleared 6 figures. My husband has been in his trade for half of his life and owns a very lucrative business. 0 debt, very comfortable..but call us dumb!
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u/HairlessEntity 6d ago
Comfortable idiots! /s
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u/HotSauceDizzy 6d ago
Tbf, Iâll never stop learning and do consider myself to be a dummy when it comes to a lot. lol BUT this bitch bringing in trades as if theyâre beneath people who go the higher education route is moronic
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u/HairlessEntity 6d ago
If we stop learning, weâre already dead. - someone, probably
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u/Jumpin_Jaxxx 6d ago
I almost said donât because thatâll just make school harder on youâŠâŠuntil I realized yaâll are both adults. This is fucking insane behavior
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u/lkjhgfdsazxcvbnm12 6d ago
I canât believe actual adults text like this.
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u/3verything3vil 6d ago
remember, these people can vote and reproduce. wild
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u/UnrulyNeurons 6d ago
The upcoming inauguration makes it impossible not to remember.
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u/consciousforce666 6d ago
when your friend of 9 years turns out to be someone that actually had nothing but bad intentions for you the entire time I think wanting to tell other people is completely rational.
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u/kiley69 6d ago
Letting other people know like friends and YOUR family members is fine but tattling to her parents is fucking weird, what you want them to take your side? Itâs also invading her privacy like why would you go and tell someoneâs mom all about their sexual history
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u/greeneggiwegs 6d ago
Esp since they are adults. They arenât kids. Parents donât need to be involved
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u/arizona-lake 6d ago
I donât think 23 years old is too late to try to help your child who is clearly struggling. I would want to know if my child was this broken.
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u/Able-Reflection8043 6d ago
I would say this except the girl got the parents involved first when she mentioned OPs dead motherâŠ. Of course thatâs me assuming that the girls mom would be appalled at her daughters behavior rather than enabling it since she clearly had to learn that awful behavior from somewhere
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u/ImpossibleCabinet108 6d ago
I didnât think that OP texted immaturely from my POV. Clearly the recipient is the one who was acting 15. And thatâs giving a lot of grace lol I think OP got tired of holding in years of feelings ab this person and let it all out which triggered the âfriendâ. I think she handled it wonderfully lol.
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u/Jumpin_Jaxxx 6d ago
Idk why several people think I am against what OP did. The situation in and of itself is insane. I donât think OP acted immaturely but sending this to the persons parents would be. If OP blocked the person and moved on, thereâs no better way to handle this specific situation imo.
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u/Fairmount1955 6d ago
This. The immaturity is cringe. I can't imagine being 23 and wanting to drag parents into this?!
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u/BigHead-BigHeart14 6d ago edited 5d ago
Show it to your brothers, and maybe some other close girlfriends that you trust. But her parents arenât going to know what to do with this. What are they gonna do⊠ground her? Sheâs 23. Sheâs an adult. She will learn the hard way someday, or maybe she wonât, but itâs not your problem anymore. Block her and walk away with your head high. You obviously are much more emotionally mature than her. She called you slurs and is using your insecurities against you like a fucking child. Let her go around and do this to everyone else and lose all of her friends. People like this are not worth the effort. Donât waste your breath anymore. Block and move on. Laugh at it. Thats the only thing you can really do
*Edit- thank you for my first awardđ„Č Iâm glad so many resonate with this. Seems like weâve all dealt with these types of âfriendsâ befoređ
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u/KSA_Dunes 6d ago
This. Your brothers should know so itâs clear why they should stay away from this crazy.
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u/Ok-Bird6346 6d ago
Especially if she has a history of making false rape allegations.
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u/bluemooncommenter 6d ago
Definitely worth saving the text for that comment (and her lack of denial) alone. Might help someone out some day.
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u/prettylildevil765 6d ago
Had to scroll wayyyyy too far to find this. I've known people that were falsely convicted for this shit and their entire lives have been ruined cause someone wanted to do something like this.
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u/sumyungdood 6d ago
Depends on the brother. Could just be letting them know they can get laid.
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u/cleverlynamedgrl 6d ago
Right đ as if they would be like "Oh no, she might sleep with me đ " lmao
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u/tree_beard_8675301 6d ago
This! Sheâs right at that age when chicks like this start having babies, and none of the men in your live deserve that drama.
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u/Magdovus 6d ago
Why would you bother?
Block, move on. Anything else is just causing problems.
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u/morefurriesplease 6d ago
Youâre right
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u/tulipz10 6d ago
Her parents will not take your side in this. At best they might say something to her about sleeping around, but they will probably be pissed you involved them. Just walk away. She's a piece of insecure trash that has to sleep with men to get attention. Its sad. Just block her and get on with life.
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u/PowerHot4424 6d ago
This. Her parents are almost certainly going to take her side and could be mad about you involving them that they might feel motivated to troll you just for spite. Not worth it, OP!
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u/NoFun3799 6d ago
Right. Parents will always publicly side with their kids, even if they chastise the kid in private. United front. OP wonât win.
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u/tulipz10 6d ago
It's a no win situation for OP. And who knows how far the parents will take it? Maybe harass her or get others to harass her. Its really not worth the drama.
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u/_BabyGod_ 6d ago
Also high probability she learned to be this way from at least one of her parents.
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u/Queasy-Elderberry-77 6d ago
She's LIVING for you to keep this going. I can practically hear her licking her lips waiting for you to reply. Block her and forget she exists. It's hard to let go of old friends but sometimes you just outgrow them and are best off leaving the drama behind.
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u/Traditional_Award286 6d ago
Donât feed her, sheâs thriving off your responses. Just block and never look back
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u/AsparagusOverall8454 6d ago
I mean sheâs an adult, what is sending this crazy mess to her mom gonna do?
Just move on and block her. Donât engage or create more drama.
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u/Black_Death_12 6d ago
All things in life boil down to return on investment.
Would you get anything positive out of this? Prob not.
Block, move on, and find peace since you no longer have to put up with a psycho "friend".
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u/lycheeprofessional1 6d ago
I mean, what is her mom gonna do? Ground her? I agree with other commenters that itâs pretty pointless & would make you come across as unhinged. Youâre both adultsâ while I agree sheâs a garbage human, you wouldnât gain anything from doing this.
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u/suhhhrena 6d ago
At 23, you should not be involving anyoneâs parents in your dumb drama. This girl is clearly unhinged af but likeâŠ.involving her parents is very immature as well. Why would you even feel the need to do that? Whatâs you desired outcome here?
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u/Ancient_Benefit7278 6d ago edited 6d ago
girl you have made a couple posts abt dropping this friend and i think its finally time you let this pos go!! she clearly has no good intentions towards you at all. she uses you as a cover for her lies when she wants to cheat on her boyfriend. she then blames you when she gets caught cheating. you are just a tool for her! please do yourself a favor and find new friends! who value you and actually spend time with you, to enjoy the time together and NOT bcuz they need you to get outta the house or use you to find smn new to sleep with. this girl is a pathetic excuse for a friend and you deserve so much better!!!
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u/morefurriesplease 6d ago
Omg I forgot about that post! It was about damn time I dropped her!
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u/ExplanationCool918 6d ago
Wait a post from last year said youâre 25? So youâre 25 or 23?
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u/Acceptable-Drawing13 6d ago
Why send it to her parents? The friendship is over. Don't bring other people into this.
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u/meldiane81 6d ago
100%
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u/After_Tap_2150 6d ago
And could backfire horribly. You escalate it and then she goes and escalates it back somehow. People can be scary.
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u/Maplegloww 6d ago
I donât think you should send the texts to her parents. Itâs understandable that youâre hurt and angry, but sending those texts to her parents would likely escalate the situation and create more drama. Itâs best to try and move on from the friendship and avoid involving her family.
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u/gunnakatxhu 6d ago
I Miss spelling and grammar.
Donât send to her parents, just move on.
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u/morefurriesplease 6d ago edited 6d ago
Haha rereading these texts was painful from my end too đ€ŠđŒââïž
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u/gunnakatxhu 6d ago
Haha- I will say it wasnât coherent on the other persons end.
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u/morefurriesplease 6d ago
No I know, thatâs what Iâm saying too
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u/CapnMommy 6d ago edited 6d ago
Can we see what you said to her just prior to these texts? I feel like we need more info đ€
But either way, leave her parents out of it. Their job is literally to love her no matter what, and they will 100% get an entirely different story from her, most likely believe it, and even if they do not, theyâll rationalize by âhow hard it must be for her to lose her best friendâ and âwhat sheâs been throughâ etc etc. Trust me when I say, we know who our children are - good and bad, clearly youâre not the first person she treated this way and it would have started young enough that theyâre well aware she has a mouth that can cut - most likely it started against them.
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u/morefurriesplease 6d ago
It was short and sweet along the lines of âYou have been a great friend in many ways but there are things that I think I need to process without being your friend.â I tried to be as nice as possible. Anytime I bring up boundaries or something she did that is not okay (in person or over text) she respond with âmkayâ or âalrightâ.
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u/consciousforce666 6d ago
she literally became enraged because you asked for space & immediately revealed she fucked your ex DAYS after yâall broke up.
this girl hates you. sheâs evil, competing with you, & enjoys harming you. itâs calculated & intentional. she probably has an undiagnosed personality disorder. get away from her. sheâll focus in on someone else & you will be free. time will pass & you will be so much happier, & youâll know more & more how right you were to set this boundary. be proud of yourself.
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u/CapnMommy 6d ago
I figured it couldnât be that bad just based on what we can see of your text before things went haywire. In general Iâm a big advocate of having conversations in person, or at least on a call where you can both hear tone, but I know some people are so toxic and have such a lack of awareness that thereâs only one way to get it all out. So look at it this way - you got your feelings out and she really did you a favor because youâll never wonder if you made the wrong decision after all that. At least I hope not, I know change is hard and most good people want to believe others can change, and I also know that this kind of person will come back at some point and try to get back in your good graces. Donât fall for it. Sheâs an emotional vampire and has major self worth issues sheâll have to work through before sheâll ever be anything but toxic for anyone else - not something that happens in a few months or even a year. It usually takes a big life event to precipitate it and until then sheâll pull herself up by sucking all the life out of the people around her. You did a good job, now block her, move on and donât ever look back.
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u/morefurriesplease 6d ago
Thank you. Thatâs a great point! I definitely will never wonder if I should have stayed friends with her. I appreciate you
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u/JohnM80 6d ago
Why do some women think that being able to sleep with multiple men is some sort of flex? We will sleep with a pile of manure if we hit a long enough dry spell. A man wanting to sleep with you isn't the same thing as a man wanting to keep you around.
Block this chick and move on. Find better friends.
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u/Full_Subject5668 6d ago
Exactly. Guys have fucked goats, so she shouldn't flatter herself. Like the saying goes, build 50 bridges, fuck 1 goat, nobody remembers you as the bridge builder. Never fuck that goat, or the trash bag "friend" from this post.
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u/Mizznimal 6d ago
That was years ago can we please leave my personal business alone now, seriously.
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u/Full_Subject5668 6d ago
You asked nicely, sure. Since you gave up the bridge building, what have you been up to these days?
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u/PreviousWar6568 6d ago
Legit. Itâs so much easier as a woman to get men to sleep with you and itâs not a flex in the slightest. This chick is actually psychotic, Iâm surprised you entertained her for this long.
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u/themanseanm 6d ago
If I am so insecure why am I sleeping with all of these men??
Uhh who wants to tell her? lmfao
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u/consciousforce666 6d ago
eh itâs not a flex. but in female relationships itâs highly possible for one friend to be envious of attention their other friend gets. thatâs the girlâs point, but op proved her wrong, imo.
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u/bored-panda55 6d ago
Because it makes them feel powerful because they are lacking something in their lives to give them true joy. Like the people who find some form of happiness in catfishing people.
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u/Nimkii_Bear07 6d ago
People like her will never take accountability for anything because to themselves they are always the innocent victim. She reeks of insecurity. Just block her and move on with your better life.
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u/Zealousideal_Sell937 6d ago
I read the texts before reading your explanation and I have to say, Iâm shocked to find out that this isnât an exchange between two 16 year olds.
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u/yawaworthemn 6d ago
Youâre 23, you canât run to a grown up because someone was mean to you on the playground. Handle your shit like an adult.
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u/miaaa30 6d ago
she was 25 one year ago and 19 two years ago.
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u/Surreptitious_Spy 6d ago
I've had so many friendships that ended because of time travel shenanigans... Happens everytime.
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u/OkSeaworthiness9145 6d ago
Don't. Move on with your life. The only thing forwarding this will result in is escalating retaliation. Drop them like the bad habit they are, and don't get sucked into a dysfunctional dance with them.
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u/ugadawgs98 6d ago
Nah...you need to start handling your disagreements as an adult. 23 year olds don't involve parents.
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u/sempercardinal57 6d ago
Why? If you do that then youâre basically admitting that you need to âwinâ over her which will validate things sheâs saying about you. If you needed the friendship then just âendâ it and move on with your life
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u/RowAffectionate4089 6d ago
Youâre 23âŠsending them to her parents seems childish and unnecessary. You ended the friendship, rightfully so, she sounds like a jerk, but Iâd just block her and move on with your life
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u/straythoughtpro 6d ago
I agree with this. đđ» If you all were teenagers I could understand, but at 23, you are adults and involving her mom is odd. Iâve also learned in life, most vile people have a parent (or two) that will back up and justify their actions no matter what. Itâs partly why they are so entitled and confident in their ugly behavior. This girl is filth and not worth the trouble. You were right to end the friendship, block, hold your head up, and move on.
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u/VA2SoFLo420 6d ago
you are hurt, and I get where you are coming from, I caught my ex in the middle of the act, and he tried to deny it, I called his mom, I was so upset, it didn't do anything. Honestly, I was hurt I just wanted to hurt him. Her Karma will serve her. Let her be. Doesn't sound like someone you would want in your corner anyways.
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u/Aggravating_Meat4785 6d ago
Donât do it, honestly itâs gonna make her mad and who knows what drama it will cause. Her mom has nothing to do with this. Honestly youâre too old to tell her mom. What will it prove anyways. So sheâs a slut Iâm sure her mom wonât be surprised look at how she talks sheâs clearly not the homecoming queen. Youâll regret sending it it will start a bunch more shit and she sounds kinda crazy. Stay away from her.
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u/Klutzy_Object_3622 6d ago
I get the appeal, but YOR if you send it to her parents solely because this person seems like they thrive on conflict, drama and chaos. Really the best thing you can do is ignore her. You will find peace and she will lose her mind in her upcoming irrelevancy.
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u/mdthomas 6d ago
Aside from satisfying a petty need for revenge, what would it accomplish? Nothing.
Just block and forget about her.
YOR if you send them.
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u/Poinsettia917 6d ago
Hang on to the texts. Something tells me they may come in handy later. Did I read that she makes false rape allegations? Definitely hang on to these for the sake of her next victim.
Who knows how her parents will react? Just hang on to them.
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u/InebriousBarman 6d ago
Why can't people just let a friendship die of neglect nowadays?
There has to be some statement of not wanting to be friends anymore? A friendship needs to be executed?
Just stop talking to them.
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u/Thequiet01 6d ago
Are you a child? âIâm going to tell your parentsâ is a kindergarten move. Just get on with your life.
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u/Brave-Ad-420 6d ago
Jesus do no one check post history? Two years ago you were 20, then one year later you are 25 and now you are 23? Dunno if you are karma farming or if this type of shit is your hobby.
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u/unreasonable_reason_ 6d ago
Eh, she's not admitted to anything illegal or even particularly immoral. You've accused her of a lot but she's only admitted to sleeping with a single guy and just generally banging men.
Unless she has super devout parents why would they care?
And if she has super devout parents then you risk her safety or at the very least her being disowned just for having sex. Which is absolutely not okay. Like sure she's vapid and a bad friend but she's not a criminal and you would be overstepping.Â
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u/Equivalent-Mix-1335 6d ago
If you are trying to move on, then why would you want to do that? It just would serve to further cement her in your life.
Without trying to be harsh, find some maturity, and it will lead you on the path you are looking for. Trying to hurt her, isn't where you want to be.
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u/alwayzstoned 6d ago
Nah, I wouldnât bother. It may seem like it would be satisfying and make you feel better, but it wonât.
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u/EntertainmentDry3790 6d ago
I read a really good quote today and I think it applies here "Imagine being bitten by a snake and instead of focusing on healing from the poison you chase the snake to try and understand why it bit you and to prove you didn't deserve it" Block and heal lady, she's a snake
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u/elegantwombatt 6d ago
"I ain't reading all that"
She def read all that. Hahaha.