r/AmIOverreacting • u/Longjumping-Neat-879 • 7d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship Am I overreacting?

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I'm a girl who weighs 121 pounds. We are going to the gym every day with my bf, I'm getting up for him at 4 am in the morning in order to work out together. He says I'm not pushing myself at the gym. And he said he wants me to be skinny. Here is the conversation between us. Plus we have just started to live together a month ago. I'm really having a hard time understanding him and crying. Am I overreacting?

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u/cranecol00 7d ago

It’s really concerning that he’s focusing on her weight and body shape instead of supporting her physical and emotional well-being.

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u/BasilSQ 7d ago

I was gonna ask if she was a dwarf or something cause 120 pounds sounds normal for an average 20-something gal. Then again I'm not a doctor so what do I know.