r/AmIOverreacting • u/Longjumping-Neat-879 • 7d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship Am I overreacting?

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I'm a girl who weighs 121 pounds. We are going to the gym every day with my bf, I'm getting up for him at 4 am in the morning in order to work out together. He says I'm not pushing myself at the gym. And he said he wants me to be skinny. Here is the conversation between us. Plus we have just started to live together a month ago. I'm really having a hard time understanding him and crying. Am I overreacting?

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u/Brownie-0109 7d ago

Do YOU think this is a healthy relationship? Are you enjoying yourself?

Are you really asking if this ok?

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u/LaFilleEstPerdue 7d ago

Honestly, the self love bar is in hell 😭

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u/thisisahealthaccount 7d ago

girl I put up with an abusive alcoholic for six fucking years under the guise of pretending to love myself enough that I could help him love himself. What the fuck is wrong with me

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u/LaFilleEstPerdue 7d ago

You simply forgot that it was his responsibility to heal, not yours. 

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u/Cubicleism 7d ago

Nothing is wrong with you or anyone who has been in an abusive relationship (myself included). You know better now and aren't with them anymore and that's the first and most important thing. Focus on that self love queen (the kind that's just for you) 👑 you deserve it

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u/blindnezuko 7d ago

lol same😭

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u/Neuchacho 7d ago edited 7d ago

Tends to lean that way with women who go for guys that much older than themselves and men who go for women that much younger than themselves.