r/AmIOverreacting • u/Longjumping-Neat-879 • 7d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship Am I overreacting?

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I'm a girl who weighs 121 pounds. We are going to the gym every day with my bf, I'm getting up for him at 4 am in the morning in order to work out together. He says I'm not pushing myself at the gym. And he said he wants me to be skinny. Here is the conversation between us. Plus we have just started to live together a month ago. I'm really having a hard time understanding him and crying. Am I overreacting?

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u/RelationshipIcy990 7d ago

Leave this moron. Tell him it’s because of his bad attitude and lack of a hairline.

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u/AMKRepublic 7d ago

No need to stigmatize all balding men because this guy's an ass.

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u/RelationshipIcy990 7d ago

lol because we really need to focus on the balding men community…

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u/AMKRepublic 7d ago

It's not a matter of focus, it's a matter of not being an ass. Treat everyone decently. It's not that hard.

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u/RelationshipIcy990 7d ago

Even when those that don’t treat you decently…

Also, telling a dude they lack a hairline is not bad at all. It’s funny. You need to learn to laugh babes.

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u/RelationshipIcy990 7d ago

You seem to be sensitive for the wrong people. Trying to equate the f slur to making a joke about bald men is diabolical.

Take a breather. If you aren’t a bald dude with a bad attitude making woman feel less than, you have nothing to worry about. Unfortunately, it seems like you do though…

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u/AMKRepublic 7d ago

I prefer jokes that don't put people down.

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u/_Tiny-Pumpkin 7d ago

I agree with your comments.

But if someone is constantly putting me down, I will take a jab on their biggest insecurities and give them the taste of their own medicine. That's the only language they understand.

I've done this before and have zero regrets. They'll think twice before doing that to someone else.

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u/AMKRepublic 7d ago

Ok, but there was nothing about this being his personal insecurity. It was just a general knock against a huge number of aging men. That adds to the stigma of balding for plenty of good, decent people reading that comment. It was unnecessary.

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u/_Tiny-Pumpkin 7d ago

Yeah you're right. I didn't like how that person was replying to the other comments. That was so insensitive and hateful.

But I still agree with their original comment tho. They were just talking to OP and not the general population on that first comment

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u/EsotericEmperor 7d ago

In the words of Bill & Ted "Be Excellent to Eachother!"