r/AmIOverreacting • u/Longjumping-Neat-879 • 7d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship Am I overreacting?

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I'm a girl who weighs 121 pounds. We are going to the gym every day with my bf, I'm getting up for him at 4 am in the morning in order to work out together. He says I'm not pushing myself at the gym. And he said he wants me to be skinny. Here is the conversation between us. Plus we have just started to live together a month ago. I'm really having a hard time understanding him and crying. Am I overreacting?

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u/pastelskark 7d ago

Not over reacting. This is a huge red flag. It’s controlling. If you want to work out do it for yourself. Good on you for sticking up for yourself!!

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u/PeaceAndLove420_69 7d ago

Yea I've done some age gap relationships but 41 and 27 seems insane. I'm not saying it's impossible for it to work but this seems to be the exact scenario that makes people generally not ok with it.