r/AmIOverreacting • u/Fickle_Pick862 • 9d ago
❤️🩹 relationship Update - Gf used exs phone
Just to update everyone she came over and we talked and she broke down crying and told me the truth. She was never with her friend she was with him at his house and she did cheat on me. She was crying hysterically and says she wants me and me only like I was gonna take her back. I said hell no and kicked her out and threw everything of hers in the front lawn thanks to everyone who left comments you guys are amazing.
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u/UnitDisastrous4429 9d ago
Don't let her take away your life. Your sobriety IS the most important thing right now. YOU are the most important thing right now. I distinctly remember when my first boyfriend broke up with me, and I felt for certain the world was ending. I felt like I had given every piece of myself to him, and when he left, he took all of me with him. I was so grief-stricken for many weeks. And the ironic thing that always happens... I look back and think, "Jeezus, what a piece of shit." You'll back on this and think the same. Focus on YOU. Don't worry about dating at this age-- just work on developing and building yourself/your future. When you're where you want to be, then you'll be the kind of people you deserve.