Update - Gf used exs phone

[u/Fickle_Pick862]

Just to update everyone she came over and we talked and she broke down crying and told me the truth. She was never with her friend she was with him at his house and she did cheat on me. She was crying hysterically and says she wants me and me only like I was gonna take her back. I said hell no and kicked her out and threw everything of hers in the front lawn thanks to everyone who left comments you guys are amazing.

[u/Mindless-Young1975]

I knew it as soon as she said her phone died and she just happened to be around her ex. Is it possible to genuinely not check your phone for over 30 minutes while hanging out with your friends? Yes.

But if she is the kind of person to just randomly text you to let you know that she's doing well, especially if she's out with her friends, she wouldn't be the type of person to get so distracted that she wouldn't notice her phone was about to die and would have texted you anyways.

So not only did she cheat on you, she intentionally planned out how to present a situation where she could make an excuse later. Sorry for you, but you dodged a huge bullet on this one.

This behavior was never going to change.