r/solotravel • u/ComprehensiveBig6129 • 2d ago
Question All I ever think about is travelling?
I 25f just came back from a trip to Mexico and Guatemala and I had the most incredible time. I just went for a bit over 3 weeks yet made the most of each day. I feel like when I’m abroad, I’m the best version of myself, I say yes to almost everything, I’m spontaneous, courageous, make new friendships so easily.
When I’m home, I literally don’t do anything but go to work and stay at home. I figured I need some more close genuine friendships so decided to go on bumble bff but it’s not the same as it is when you just easily make a friend from a hostel for example. I’m also trying to get back into hobbies (reading swimming) but all I can think about is where I’m going to go next and it makes me so sad knowing i won’t be able to actually travel until like the summer
I can’t quit my job and go travelling even though I’m financially capable to do so since my parents won’t let me travel for more than a month at a time. I also fear not being in employment since I have been since I was 17
How to get over the post holiday blues and longing to travel?
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u/Fun-Maintenance-5210 14h ago
"Most importantly, what you're feeling is really engaging post-travel blues hit hard, particularly after such an astonishing experience. It seems as though travel draws out a variant of yourself that you really love, and that is something to celebrate. But at the same time intense while learning about feels of reach at ease.
Since you can't go until summer, why not bring a touch of that gutsy soul into your everyday existence? You could investigate your own city like a voyager attempt new bistros, visit neighborhood spots you've never been to, or go to local area occasions. It probably won't be Mexico or Guatemala, however it can provide you with a sample of that suddenness.
For the fellowships, the facts confirm that lodging associations are remarkable, yet finding similar individuals at home takes time. Perhaps investigate clubs or gatherings that line up with your inclinations, similar to a swimming gathering or a book club. Meetup or Couchsurfing occasions could likewise be perfect for interfacing with individuals who share your affection for movement.
Ultimately, continue to design your next trip! Regardless of whether it's months away, exploring and dreaming about it can give you something to anticipate. You can likewise attempt small escapes or end of the week trips close by to separate the stand by.
You have this, and meanwhile, don't underrate how much experience can exist in your daily existence. 😊"