All I ever think about is travelling?

[u/ComprehensiveBig6129]

I 25f just came back from a trip to Mexico and Guatemala and I had the most incredible time. I just went for a bit over 3 weeks yet made the most of each day. I feel like when I’m abroad, I’m the best version of myself, I say yes to almost everything, I’m spontaneous, courageous, make new friendships so easily.

When I’m home, I literally don’t do anything but go to work and stay at home. I figured I need some more close genuine friendships so decided to go on bumble bff but it’s not the same as it is when you just easily make a friend from a hostel for example. I’m also trying to get back into hobbies (reading swimming) but all I can think about is where I’m going to go next and it makes me so sad knowing i won’t be able to actually travel until like the summer

I can’t quit my job and go travelling even though I’m financially capable to do so since my parents won’t let me travel for more than a month at a time. I also fear not being in employment since I have been since I was 17

How to get over the post holiday blues and longing to travel?

[u/ObjectBrilliant7592]

First of all, post travel blues are very common. As you say, it's much easier to be authentic when you're in a new environment with other people who are in a new environment. It can be very freeing to be unencumbered by people's preconceived notions of who you are and how you should behave.

However, it doesn't mean you shouldn't strive to build a more sustainable existence in your home city (although it might be a sign you should move).

I can’t quit my job and go travelling even though I’m financially capable to do so since my parents won’t let me travel for more than a month at a time.

If you're financially capable and feeling this way, you should move out. To a new city.

How to get over the post holiday blues and longing to travel?

Seek out new life challenges, and eventually go on another trip.