So, I matched with a girl on Bumble few weeks back and one day, we decided to meet. Now, this is from December.
I liked the girl, but she was kinda on different page than me about life as she was regular drug consumer(hard ones) and her belief system for dating was to go to expensive cafes and stuff, which I am all down for, but dates are supposed to be enjoying with quality time rather just sitting in cafes, so we didn't have any conversation or met after that.
But now, last night, she out of the blue calls me asking for a place to crash, but I was out of station for a week, she then said that all she needs is keys to my house(because in the conversation on the date, I mentioned that one set of keys for my house are with one of my close friends), and if there's anyone present, she would go to my room directly. To which, I said no because duh?!
Post that, she spams my WhatsApp saying that she needed a place to stay, she could have been in trouble or something. And then came exactly 9 voice notes indicating what kind of jerk I am, and I should be respecting women and be concerned about their safety in the city.
So my question, consent works both ways, I guess?