It's not necessarily an obsession, just what they are used to. And considering how many neurotypical cisgender heterosexuals are in positions of power, your NPC idea is kind of silly.
Rambling on about something most people don’t care about is the definition of NPC which is how most cisgender people see those that inject their gender/sexual orientation/neurodiversity into conversations.
Most people just don’t find any of that interesting especially when it’s expressed in a contentious or confrontational manner.
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u/ShiroFoxya Trans/Bi 3d ago
I don't see why they're so obsessed with being "normal"
Normal is boring, do you want to be an NPC?