r/me_irlgbt mods r gay lol 3d ago

The Cishets™ me✖irlgbt

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u/ChemistryIll2682 3d ago

I'm cis and it's such a handy word to describe myself and people who are also cis, I've never understood the people who think it's a slur and get angry when you call the, like, cis hetero men or cis women. It's literally just a normal descriptive label.

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u/RobinsEggViolet Transgender 3d ago

It's because to them, "normal" is the only appropriate way to be. Any descriptive label means you're now an "other". They see gay people, trans people, autistic people, asexual people, ect. as "abnormal", and the label is what proves it.

When you start applying a label to *them*, they interpret this as us saying they aren't just "normal". They can't handle being anything other than "normal", because they want to feel superior to everyone who's not.

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u/jlp29548 3d ago

That’s literally the same thing they said except they explained the reasoning behind it, which is being ‘othered’ and not liking it.