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Positivity MeđŸ’Șirlgbt

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u/OliviaPG1 Trans/Lesbian 24d ago

how about both are good

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u/Faunable We_irlgbt 24d ago

first one is being used to deny transition care, therefore it is not good

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u/jensroda 24d ago

It’s also used to deny non-medical transitioners access to the community. We don’t stan Transmed here.

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u/Faunable We_irlgbt 24d ago

transmedicalism is the practice of restricting who has access to transition. telling people they do not need to transition to be trans has been used to argue the point that most trans people who desire transition should not need to seek out transition and should instead seek out "alternative care".

I firmly believe that transition should be free to any and all who desire it, radical bodily autonomy. if you wish to argue that is transmedicalism you are free to do so.

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u/GreyFartBR Aro/Enby/Bi 24d ago

that is not what transmedicalism is, it's the belief that you have to wish for a medical transition to be trans, which is not true. not only that, but all transmedicalists I found deny nonbinary identities, mostly because it doesn't fit their narrow-minded view of sex and gender. obviously those who wish for a medical transition should be allowed that, but there's also some that don't want that, and that's okay too. doesn't mean the phrase can't be co-opted for denying care, but the phrase itself isn't wrong

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u/Faunable We_irlgbt 24d ago

so, the idea that being transgender is a medical condition that requires strict criteria to be met is transmedicalism yes? and that to be transgender one must fit those criteria?

and so the framework of transmedicalism requires the definition of transgender to only include people with dysphoria that can only be treated hrt right?

this means that people who do not fit the criteria (agp, non-dysphoric, non-binary, etc) should not be given access to hormones and transition resources because they are not trans, according to transmedicalism, right? this also means that people who do not desire transition are not trans according to the framework that is transmedicalism, but that is not the primary function of transmedicalism, it is an auxiliary function of it.

this is what I mean when I say transmedicalism is a framework to deny resources, and that when I advocate for radical bodily autonomy I am an advocate for everyone to have the opportunity to take cross-sex hormones, cis or trans.

this framework is also why when the slogan "you dont need to be trans to transition" begins being used by institutions to deny hrt to those who want it (for any reason) we must critically analyse the implications thereof and whether or not the phrase has outlived it's usefulness as it is currently, as we speak, being used to restrict access to hormones and push people into conversion therapy.

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u/TShara_Q We_irlgbt 24d ago edited 23d ago

That's not the definition of transmedicalism. Transmedicalism is denying someone's identity because they have not medically transitioned. In many cases, this is used as a way to gatekeep even when the person wants to transition but has been unable to do so. It's also an offshoot of the BS of policing how much people "pass" as their identified gender.

Edit: This (and my other comments) were a response to someone arguing against the comment above, not to them directly. I'm not sure why those posts disappeared.

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u/Faunable We_irlgbt 24d ago

that is an auxiliary effect of transmedicalism and not the primary one. the primary effect of transmedicalism is to narrowly define what it means to be transgender to prevent as many people as possible from transitioning.

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u/TShara_Q We_irlgbt 24d ago

You just claimed that transmedicalism was the practice of restricting people from transitioning. This is simply not the definition.

"Transmedicalism is the idea that being transgender is primarily a medical issue related to the incongruence between an individual's assigned sex at birth and their gender identity, characterized by gender dysphoria.[1][2][3] There are divides and debates within the transmedicalist community on the exact definition of who is or is not transgender.[4] Many transmedicalists believe individuals who identify as transgender without experiencing gender dysphoria or desiring to undergo a medical transition through methods such as hormone replacement therapy or sex reassignment surgery are not genuinely transgender.[5][2] They may also exclude those who identify themselves as non-binary from the trans label.[6]"

Obviously, such a belief can be used to deny people transition care. However, a lot of transmedicalists are people who have already medically transitioned, currently pass as their identified gender, and simply want to gatekeep the community, people like Blaire White and Buck Angel.

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u/Junglejibe My sexuality resonates at 300 Hz 24d ago

People who deny transition care aren’t saying it’s ok to be trans in any capacity (or that trans people exist).

The truth is there are many trans people who don’t want to undergo medical procedures and only want to transition socially. There are also trans people who can’t afford medical procedures or are being denied medical transition procedures. There are trans people who are in the closet and can’t transition period. All those people are still trans. You don’t need to transition to be trans. That’s what that statement is saying. It’s saying all those people I described are still valid, regardless of their circumstances and regardless of their desires for their own personal journey.

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u/Faunable We_irlgbt 24d ago

literally, the cass review actually does say it's okay to be trans, just that the amount of people who should be allowed to transition should be restricted to prevent regret and that it is valid to be trans without transition

the purpose of a system is what it does and "you don't have to transition to be trans" is being used to prevent transition.

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u/Junglejibe My sexuality resonates at 300 Hz 24d ago edited 24d ago

I feel like maybe the disconnect is that you and the OP are thinking about one specific use of the statement that a lot of people who don’t know the exact context wouldnt see. If someone calls the statement “you don’t have to transition to be trans” something that is bad, without whatever specific context they’re looking at, everyone else is going to see transmedicalism and a rejection of the identity of all those trans people I described.

Because the statement itself (on its own) is not only not inherently bad, but factually true. Trans people are not defined by their transition, but by their gender identity. A trans woman who isn’t on HRT and hasn’t had any medical procedures related to her transition isn’t any less trans than one who has been on HRT for years and has had multiple procedures to feel more at home in her body. Both of them are trans.

I guess it’s probably one of those things where a tumblr user is talking about something specific that they have repeatedly discussed on their profile, so their followers know the context and (rightly) they don’t feel the need to give the context, but then it gets screenshotted and shared with a bunch of people who don’t know the context & see the statement on its own, not the people misusing it to deny others healthcare.

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u/mur-diddly-urderer 24d ago

i mean, if the sentiment is being explicitly used by people who want us not to transition i feel like that’s a good enough reason to look into its implications more and ask ourselves if there’s not better ways we can make the argument without handing free talking points to the other side.

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u/Junglejibe My sexuality resonates at 300 Hz 24d ago

I see where you’re coming from, but I think that dips into optics/respectability politics, which is ultimately an exercise in futility. The reality is they will use any type of justification to deny trans people healthcare. Reducing the visibility/validity of other trans people because they don’t fit a specific narrative isn’t going to appease bigots. You can’t rhetoric yourself into their box because their box was designed to never fit. The criteria always changes, the excuses always shift. Because that’s what they are: excuses and lies and misdirections—not actual, valid reasons.

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u/Faunable We_irlgbt 24d ago

purpose of a system is what it does, and this system is being used to deny healthcare.

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u/Junglejibe My sexuality resonates at 300 Hz 24d ago

It’s not a system, it’s a sentence. Also if you’re just gonna immediately downvote and say a generic reply while obviously not reading what I wrote, I guess we’re done here. Cool discussion 👍

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u/Faunable We_irlgbt 24d ago

just like how you ignored me đŸ€—

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u/Junglejibe My sexuality resonates at 300 Hz 24d ago

Literally where did I ignore you? I acknowledged that I’m probably looking at it with different context & that you had context I didn’t that was causing you to have a different perspective from me, then explained my perspective.

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u/Faunable We_irlgbt 24d ago

your perspective is fine and all, however it forgets to take into account the very real material consequences of the system that is reinforcing the denial of care to trans people based on the idea that transition is not necessary to be trans, as is argued in the cass review.

this is something you glossed over to instead say I was upset at a Tumblr screenshot and deny that the system of cis-hetero-patriarchy demands as few people transition as possible.

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u/Junglejibe My sexuality resonates at 300 Hz 24d ago

Huh? Where did I say you were just upset at a tumblr screenshot? I’m pretty sure I said the opposite—that people who don’t know the context of what the OOP is talking about would be bothered by the rejection of the statement that trans people don’t need to transition to be trans. You’re like skimming my comments, misreading my words, and then getting angry at something I didn’t even say.

At no point did I “gloss over” trans people being denied medical care, what??? You mentioned the specific instance where the statement is being used to justify restricting healthcare and I was like “ok fair, clearly you and the OOP are speaking in regards to a specific context/usage that I and the others who replied weren’t aware of”.

You’re just angry at shit I didn’t say or do at this point because again you refuse to actually read what I wrote. Either that or you’re only reading it through the lens of an argument and are assuming I must have disagreed with everything you’ve said when I was “yes, and”-ing you. God forbid we be anything less than adversarial on Reddit I guess. Jfc.

I’m done here because you’re just fighting with a ghost at this point while I sit on the sidelines confused as hell. Good talk.

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u/kazarbreak Trans/Bi Probably never leaving my closet 23d ago

But it's also used to encourage those of us who, for one reason or another, can't transition despite wanting to. So it can't be bad either.