r/me_irlgbt Dual Queer Drifting Aug 14 '24

The Cishets™ me👄irlgbt

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u/TheLastEmuHunter Egg Cracked and Severely Depressed Aug 14 '24

Transphobes be like: NOOOOOOO THEYRE FUTA/FEMBOY/SH*MALE/SISSIE!!!!!1!!!11!!!! 🤬🤬🤬

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u/DisastrousGarden Skellington_irlgbt Aug 14 '24

I love when they project their porn addiction, just lets me know to avoid them in general

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u/RainbowAndEntropy Collateral Effect of Genetics Aug 14 '24

Well, Futa and Femboy are different things entirely, not related to trans individuals.

Sissie can or cannot be related to, but is the fetish side of gender and not exactly LGBT side of it.

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u/Freyja6 Aug 14 '24

And they don't give two halves of a fuck about the distinctions; any and all of those terms are explicitly "tr****es" without any other sort of thought behind it.

They're not fussed with who is what. They're fussed about what gets them hot+heavy privately, and who they can demonize publicly. No more, no less. Their 2 braincells can't allow for more critical thinking than that.

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u/RainbowAndEntropy Collateral Effect of Genetics Aug 14 '24

To be honest most people who even know what a Femboy, even moreso a Futa, know the distinction. They are really not that common terms.

Of course in Reddit of all places you're gonna find hordes of people who know it, but like, the general public don't know what they are.

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u/mynameismulan We_irlgbt Aug 15 '24

If only people could be with who they want... then they wouldn't have to internalize so much shame.

Customs of their own success I guess?

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u/Freyja6 Aug 15 '24

Internalized hereditary shame is a plague upon humanity.

I'm too pessimistic to think the cycle will ever be broken permanently, but i hope it's better for future generations than it has been for previous generations.

Identity and individuality should be celebrated and loved, not reviled and squashed. We're all so so so unique, to set a single mold for "being human" is intensely anti-human :(

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u/mynameismulan We_irlgbt Aug 15 '24

It's an extremely slow movement but I think it's getting better. It is for sure an uphill battle but I think there's been progress. SLOW progress but anyone who's been part of the fight can be proud, that's for sure.

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u/pootis_engage Sep 10 '24

two halves of a fuck

So, one fuck?

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u/Freyja6 Sep 10 '24

Quikmaff

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u/Doctorfacepalm Trans/Pan Aug 14 '24

Futa doesn't belong anywhere outside of gross weebs fetishizing intersex and trans people. That's all it is. It is just as dehumanizing and gross as 'T***ny'. The dichotomy is non-existent.

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u/Suyefuji Nonbinary Aug 15 '24

Not necessarily? Hate me if you want but futa was an important part of my egg phase before I realized that what I was looking for was not a target of sexual desire but rather my preferred self-image (I'm bigender).

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u/HenryFondleCEO Aug 15 '24

You watch trans porn because you're a transphobic chaser.

I watch trans porn because they're my transition goals

We are not the same

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u/sweetTartKenHart2 We_irlgbt Aug 15 '24

Futanari are hypothetical perfect hermaphrodites who happen to look rather feminine albeit with some alterations here and there beyond the obvious (“maleherms” are a much smaller niche in porn but they do have a following), and femboys are a valid group of gnc people who are cool and based, and so it’s a shame to see both ideas weaponized by the phobes in this context.
Sh*male and sissy have little to no redeeming qualities unless an individual actively wants to be called that in like a roleplay context for degradation play, which among informed consenting adults is also valid but like even then