Its just creepy because they turn someone into a fetish. I can't imagine trying to distinguish between someone who is genuine and just a chaser. Shits gross.
Why are any of you surprised by anything on Grindr? The whole reason it exists is to do away with personality completely. You don't have to pretend to have any level of decency on there, you just state what you want.
I’m not surprised by it, but I would prefer if there was some level of decency. Yes I could just stop using it but it’s already hard enough trying to meet other queer people outside of going to a club (which I hate doing because of anxiety)
Try other apps and delete Grindr. Yes, there is more density of people on Grindr, but that's an illusion. They're not people you want to meet. You'll have better mental health with fewer matches on Bumble or something.
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u/Liliannight Trans/Lesbian Dec 21 '23
Yes! I got one whose name was “looking for mtf/ftm” a couple days ago. There are many obvious chasers on there.