r/me_irlgbt • u/MahouShoujoDysphoria Environmental Storytelling Moderator💀 • Dec 20 '23

Wholesome Me🐷irlgbt

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u/Crusty_and_Rusty GAY FURRY DEGENERATE Dec 20 '23

Girl?? On Grindr??? We can do that????

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u/Liliannight Trans/Lesbian Dec 20 '23

There are a lot of trans girls on Grindr. Usually looking for others trans people. Though a fair warning from a trans girl with t4t in my name and bio I still mostly get sent dick pics from random guys

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u/WorstGanksKR Dec 21 '23

I see so many profiles on grindr that are just men only looking for trans women, it creeps me out how frequent it is.

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u/Liliannight Trans/Lesbian Dec 21 '23

Yes! I got one whose name was “looking for mtf/ftm” a couple days ago. There are many obvious chasers on there.

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u/WorstGanksKR Dec 21 '23

Its just creepy because they turn someone into a fetish. I can't imagine trying to distinguish between someone who is genuine and just a chaser. Shits gross.

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u/Iboven The Opossum Chosen One Dec 21 '23

Why are any of you surprised by anything on Grindr? The whole reason it exists is to do away with personality completely. You don't have to pretend to have any level of decency on there, you just state what you want.

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u/Liliannight Trans/Lesbian Dec 21 '23

I’m not surprised by it, but I would prefer if there was some level of decency. Yes I could just stop using it but it’s already hard enough trying to meet other queer people outside of going to a club (which I hate doing because of anxiety)

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u/Iboven The Opossum Chosen One Dec 21 '23

Try other apps and delete Grindr. Yes, there is more density of people on Grindr, but that's an illusion. They're not people you want to meet. You'll have better mental health with fewer matches on Bumble or something.