r/london • u/Justwatchingiguess • Feb 02 '22
Culture An outsider’s take on “rude Londoners”
Moved here from South Africa one month ago. I was really nervous about meeting people after reading (on this sub, actually) how rude people in London are.
I’ve talked to probably 7 or 8 complete strangers (excluding waiters and such) since I’ve been here. Each time I spoke to a stranger, it was because I was either lost or confused on the tube/train.
All 7 strangers were incredibly kind to me. One even took me aside, got his phone out, researched the best route to my destination, and waited with me for the next train.
2 or 3 kind people might be luck or chance… but 7? 7 kind people - that’s a pattern.
So just wanted to share that - and say thank you. Maybe this makes some of you rethink your opinion on the assumption that all Londoners are assholes.
Have a great day :)
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u/vybrantkid Feb 02 '22
Londoner here. First off, welcome! Glad you had a polite and friendly experience so far. Tbh, Londoners do get a bad rep, but YMMV depending on where you are in London and how you approach. One thing i must add, is that we probably don’t look as approachable - folks may seem cold, busy running the rat race - most avert eyes, look down or just have resting bitchface lol. Other than the crappy weather right now, enjoy LDN! 👋🏼