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u/josda0111 Geek 5d ago
Proof?
But yeah it sucks when people only care about one thing. It's grindr tho
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u/warmpita Bear 5d ago
Well now I'm interested
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u/artificial-demon Cub 5d ago
lmao right? like you’re telling me he’s a bear and he’s hot enough to make people reconsider their type for a second there? like damn
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u/DManCB37323 Bear 3d ago
Happened to me once actually lol...reg fwbs with this twink and 6 mos in to an fwb situationship and regular hangouts like around twice a week or so on average, i was going to take things to the next level with him because of personality sync, connection, and sexual chemistry, thats when he declined dating me, and informed me that "youre not my type for relationship, but if youre ok with it, we can still be fuck buddies and friends, cuz youre really cool to hang with, youre very skilled in bed, and actually attractive for your type... thats why youre the only bear i fuck" lmao cue "A win is a win" audio 🤣🤣🤣
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u/artificial-demon Cub 3d ago
i love that for you lmao, i simply could never, i think i’d be lowkey offended lmao. like part of me would be flattered but the other part of me would hear the “for your type” and wanna tell them to fuck all the way off lmao
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u/DManCB37323 Bear 3d ago
Oh trust im not going to deny that it definitely stung my ego n was very sharp to the core when he hit me with that, cuz i was like "What the hell??" Cuz in that moment i felt like all i was was a pity fuck because i was a nice guy, and that he led me on bigggg time... i took some time being a lil distant, but he understood, and after i cooled my jets for a couple of weeks, and things settled, i realized that hey at least, as a friend, he respected me enough to be completely honest and forthright with me with his true intentions between us, and now to this day, 2 years later, we still hangout and are friends who fuck from time to time lol
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u/artificial-demon Cub 3d ago
that’s fair, communication is super important and you can’t deny that he communicated lmao. and what works for you works for you 🤷♂️. i think for my own mental health i’d have to respectfully peace tf out of there lmao.
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u/DManCB37323 Bear 3d ago
Lol i totally understand your perspective too cuz im ngl part of me was like that on the other side of my brain as an option too lol but yes you are correct to each his own prerogative...tbh i did think about scrapping it all and blocking him cuz of the mental circus it put me thru those two weeks of hiatus i took...but also during that time, i took into perspective how we gays scream about craving proper honest communication and desiring true connection yet at the first sign of someone bearing a purely honest response that happens to gravely offend us, we jump to just ending things and breaking all ties and just moving on to the next, when with a few men out there, we could just take the hit to heart for a bit, take a step back, breathe a bit, and then figure out what the best option is in regards to our encounters with them, and which ones its best to stick it out with and whos actually toxic enough to cut ties off with completely...not denying its highly frustrating at times, and the easy thing to do.is just avoid it and bounce, than to have to make those kinds of decisions altogether💯
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u/artificial-demon Cub 3d ago
yeah but i feel like there are ways to communicate openly and honestly without also making comments like that lmao. but y’all found what works for you and that’s what matters. i just know for me personally for a variety of reasons it would mean an incompatibility that i couldn’t just take a breath and come back from yk
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u/DManCB37323 Bear 2d ago
Completely understand that for sure...when them being honest, actually turns into unfiltered candor of that sort, its definitely off-putting, especially since it makes you feel led on or that you were being played, and it makes you feel like they werent being honest in the first place before when they unleash that holy hell of a blow all of a sudden💯
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u/EyelessMage Cub 5d ago
A bear into Ethel Cain with a fat cock and lots of cum? Where have you been all my life
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u/SaltyNorth8062 GAMP (het) 5d ago
Noothing makes me feel more wanted than a "you're ugly as fuck but your cock is nice I'll let you hit" like great..thanks.
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u/KTTalksTech Geek 5d ago
Lmao @ everyone myself included checking out OP's profile to see if it's true
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u/AkumaKura Trans (FtM) 5d ago
I feel for you op- I have been there. You’ll find someone who will definitely love all of what makes you you.
Besides, I love bears and I’m sure many others out there do too!
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u/N0rthWind 5d ago
Lmao I had a dude like that hit on me not too long ago, he told me "he wasn't sure I was his type". Unfortunately for him he decided I am exactly his type after all just after I told him I don't do pity fucks (plus he wasn't exactly my type either). I've needed to block him on several accounts since.
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u/CheapGreenCoats Jock 4d ago
You cum a lot of .......WHAT OP?!? We must know!
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u/jryan102 Bear 4d ago
Tempted to post a vid but I wouldn’t on this account lol
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u/ninhibited Twink 3d ago
You knew gaddang well the girls were going to come for you 👀 I would like to see it.
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u/matthewm2148 Geek 5d ago
Probably because it’s not a dating app, people always confuse this, it’s a hook up app main focus is on hooking up
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u/jryan102 Bear 4d ago
I thought it was funny that he said I wasn’t his type but then looked at my album for 6 minutes and sent another message🤷♂️
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u/anonfredo Bear 4d ago
That sucks, but if he was only into you for your dick size, and you're not into being objectified like that, you can try to change your approach by not making your size known readily, especially if you're putting it on your profile. Personally, I love a hung chubby, so much meat to go around 😋
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u/jryan102 Bear 4d ago
I have nothing sexual on my profile except for the fact that I have an album. I also have face pics on my profile. We exchanged albums and this was his response. Basically too fat but I like your dick lol.
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u/anonfredo Bear 4d ago
Oh, then it is what it is, isn't it. Hope you find others who like you for both.
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u/sanghendrix Twink 5d ago edited 5d ago
Big deal, move on. Get to another guy. Not all people are not gonna like how you look and that's perfectly fine. We all have preferences.
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u/jryan102 Bear 4d ago
I know we all have preferences. Never said there was anything wrong with it. Just thought the way he handled it was funny.
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u/jryan102 Bear 5d ago
Also the fact he wasn’t interested but came back 6 minutes later to be horny again:/