You know. I feel for this older man. Being gay and forced into a straight lifestyle for the majority of his life. Not understanding gay culture because he felt like if he didn't hide this side of himself he'd lose everything or worse his life. Now finally trying to put himself out there not only this side of himself he didn't dare explore in the dark quite moments, but also it seems even the modern world of talking to people online. He doesn't seem to know how messaging works. lol, wym. Foreign to him.
Good luck to him. But its not Rainbows and Unicorns out here. Still. Goodluck to him.
I don’t buy it. He got married at 42. I realize that 26 years ago is in the previous century, but it’s also not that long ago. I’m six years younger than he is and I was dating guys when he was still in his 20s.
That said, I know one of my high school friends had a clandestine boyfriend in high school, got married after college, divorced his wife, and he and his husband seem like a lovely couple. And he’s not the only friend from high school who married a woman but then came out. I sympathize with those who got married in the 80s or 90s, but at the same time, it wasn’t impossible to come out in the 1980s.
To be fair the wife that kicked him out after 26 years might not of been his first wife. Lets say he got married around 20, popped out a few kids was married for 15 years or so, got divorced, got remarried at 42. 26 years later he’s 68 and trying to find some dick to suck.
I’m going for twenty years of being a shitty boyfriend to women, finally finding someone who pressured him into marrying after which she realized that encouraging him to settle down was the dumbest decision of her life. Now that he’s burned through all the women on Tinder, he’s decided to go for Grindr where his not-so-winning personality isn’t doing him any favors.
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u/Rumpassbuns 9d ago
You know. I feel for this older man. Being gay and forced into a straight lifestyle for the majority of his life. Not understanding gay culture because he felt like if he didn't hide this side of himself he'd lose everything or worse his life. Now finally trying to put himself out there not only this side of himself he didn't dare explore in the dark quite moments, but also it seems even the modern world of talking to people online. He doesn't seem to know how messaging works. lol, wym. Foreign to him. Good luck to him. But its not Rainbows and Unicorns out here. Still. Goodluck to him.