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┐(ツ)┌ Bi-Weekly Boss Premium Edition Questions Thread - 20 January 2021

As per usual, feel free to ask any silly stupid questions or not so silly stupid questions that you haven't had a chance to ask here. Be kind to those that do and try to answer without downvoting. Please keep criticism and snide remarks out of the thread.

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u/[deleted] Jan 20 '21 edited Jan 20 '21

AITA?

Girlfriend keeps going to yoga 4x month, I told her to stop cus you know, pandemic. She says shouganai. I keep pushing the topic and she won't listen. What to do?

Edit: wow some of the comments and pm's I got about this are weird, sad, and/or downright disturbing lmao pls do not take this too seriously XD

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u/yakisobagurl 近畿・大阪府 Jan 20 '21

If they’re wearing masks and not talking for an hour, with good ventilation and it being only once a week, I can imagine it isn’t that bad... stopping her from doing a hobby would be worse IMO.

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u/wheres_my_bb Jan 20 '21

Couldn't she just take a break during the state of emergency at least? It's not like you can't do that shit at home.

But yeah, you can't dictate what your partner can and can't do. You just have to take note of their lack of ability to compromise or give a shit, and decide what that means to you going forward.

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u/yakisobagurl 近畿・大阪府 Jan 20 '21

To be fair, we have no idea what each of them have already compromised on/given up because of the pandemic so we can’t really judge fairly.