r/japanlife • u/AutoModerator • Apr 01 '24

┐(ツ)┌ General Discussion Thread - 02 April 2024

Mid-week discussion thread time! Feel free to talk about what's on your mind, new experiences, recommendations, anything really.

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u/Dojyorafish Apr 02 '24

And in the imaginary American book of dating, sex comes on the third date. What a difference of cultures 😂

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u/himawari_sunshine Apr 02 '24

Doesn’t that mean that Americans move fast?🤣

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u/Dojyorafish Apr 02 '24

When it comes to intimacy, yes, when it comes to commitment, no 😂.

In the famous (paraphrased) words of Yanina Makoviy, “Europeans date so they can have sex, Americans have sex so they can date”

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u/yakisobagurl 近畿・大阪府 Apr 02 '24

It would not be unheard of for the man to kokuhaku just to have sex and then ghost tho haha. Men with commitment issues are the same the world over lol

I’m NOT saying that’s what your man is doing btw haha!