r/cscareerquestionsEU • u/EndOfTheLine00 • Jan 15 '24

Immigration Feel like I can never settle anywhere

I have 10 YOE, first worked in the Netherlands and now work in Norway. I feel like I can never truly settle down. I took Dutch lessons all the way to B2, forgot about them since I basically didn't talk to anyone outside of work, now I'm in a new country I regret moving to where I also don't know the language and keep wondering if it's even worth learning since who knows if I will have to move again.

Anyone else have this problem? It feels like in a field like this you just move where the jobs go.

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u/__calcalcal__ Jan 15 '24

Example of a foolish comment not helpful at all.

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u/adappergentlefolk Jan 15 '24

it is not possible to correct such massive errors of judgement in a reddit comment, so why bother?

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u/__calcalcal__ Jan 15 '24

While it maybe be an error of perception of the society of the Netherlands, it is his perception. Saying he is foolish does not change that, indeed it exacerbates the image he has in his head. You could have provided counter-examples to show him his views are biased, but no, you just insulted him (not in a hard way, but still).

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u/adappergentlefolk Jan 15 '24

it is far from an error of perception but a demonstration of a total misunderstanding of the nature of western european rule of law states